I have a few very low value male friends. Don’t question why - I’m still in my leveling up phase and I’m a bleeding heart so it’s really hard for me to let go of friends.
So I was at a gathering, talking to one of them about his single status and one of the reasons he mentioned as to why he would like a girlfriend is - that there would be someone who would share chores with him.
Mind you, the guy lives in a total pigsty and is aware of it. And is probably aware that a woman won’t likely want to live in a dirty shack like his and will likely keep it presentable.
Really solidified my decision to live separately from my possible future boyfriend. I absolutely refuse to be someone’s bangmaid.
This is just further proof that the whole "men just don't see the mess" is the biggest gd lie. HVM have no problem cleaning. Scrotes however...
They SEE the mess, they KNOW it's there. THEY just don't want to be the ones cleaning it up because it's "beneath them." Scrotes would rather wallow in filth and wait it out until someone else cleans it up for them than to do it themselves.
Single men who live alone living like pigs is so common that even landlords are catching on. Two of my landlords have told me independently from each other that they only rent to couples, female roommates or single women, but never single men or male roommates because they are the worst of all tenants (dirty, break stuff and don't fix it, loud, don't get along with other tenants...). And the landlords were female, so this wasn't a "creepy male landlord spying on his female tenants" thing.
Red flag, red flag. I can literally do all the chores in my own place by myself. Weaponized incompetence incoming.
Ewww. Yeah, I’ve nexted plenty of men who lived alone, but lived like a dety pig. The best part of leveling up is blocking snd deleting those who don’t serve you anymore. It’s good to recognize his LVness and to now use this new found recognition to work on finding mew, better friends. Best of luck on your journey.
He's not looking for a gf he's looking to be mothered.
“Share chores” = “dump all cleaning, cooking, and laundry on a mommy bangmaid”
"I'm too lazy to be an adult, I'll just get a gf appliance"
It's basically an acquisition
Let me guess, he's looking for a girlfriend to split rent with too.
Does he know about roommates?