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I've about had it. I live in NYC where there's an infestation of scrotes especially older ones, and I got told TWICE yesterday, "you would look prettier with a smile and not a scowl, hun" and "frowning is not an attractive look on you. It's Valentine's day, lighten up." First of all, its none of your fucking business, I literally JUST got a call that a relative close to me got diagnosed with liver disease, why are women expected to always been in a performative smiley mood, especially younger women?? I feel like older scrotes always want me to play in the role of being an "innocent," obedient happy go lucky young girl and if I don't fit into that narrative, or if I'm not constantly happy, they get offended. Fuck off, I don't owe you guys anything, I usually am a very positive person in general but if I'm in a bad mood, don't expect me to smile just for your sake!! Why is it always on women to act a certain way when scrotes are allowed to grumble and scowl and groan everyday?
Rant over, I'm just about had it.
I just tell them they’d look smarter if they didn’t speak, but…
LVM are dependent on women to feel better. That is where they get their positive energy from. They don’t get the same feeling when a man smile. They absolutely cannot live without positive woman-attention and energy. If you don’t smile, or look happy - you are not giving them the much needed positive feelings they get from seeing a young woman smile. They cannot give this to themselves, or from other men. They are completely dependent little boys.
Do not give them what they want or need. It’s not your job. They don’t care about how you are doing or feeling. They care about how THEY are doing and feeling.
"I don't need to smile for a clown"
"I'm supposed to care what you think?" Said with genuine surprise. My RBF is carefully cultivated to keep all but the most audacious of scrotes at a safe minimum distance.
I have resting smiley face, but even that's not good enough.
One time I was on public transportation standing by a window, minding my own business and enjoying the passing scenery when a little old man tapped me on the shoulder.
Little old man: You shouldn't do that.
Me: What?
Little old man: Look out the window, it's very unapproachable.
I briefly considered telling him to fuck off, but decided he's not worth wasting even that much of my breath, so I simply turned my back to him and continued looking out the window. Then he just went on to bother the woman standing next to me, and she was willing to humour him with a little conversation.
One of these days I would like to really rattle one of these guys, so they would think twice about bothering women in public again. I don't think even "fuck off" is going to do the trick. They seem to feel rewarded if you talk to them at all, even if it's just to say "what?" Maybe I should just silently stare and do a creepy smile like this:
"Tell me a joke then" works for me. God I am so glad to be out of customer service where I got that shit all the time.
Tell them your mom died. Or tell them you have cancer.
Idk, but I get it from women a lot, too.
why is op banned?
Straight up tell them to fuck off. I would.
I hear it every now and then that I need to smile more and I also hear it from the pickme women that I need to smile more because what if a man notices you?.
Off topic but I support the passport bro's. less men In America the better. Please go.
Less crimes and violence and man children who can't mind their own business.
I hate pretending to be happy too. Men and pickmes force it upon me all the time.
Oh, man. I used to get this a lot back when I lived in Queens and Brooklyn. My response was to hiss at them and stare until they got uncomfortable and walked away. Threatening to curse them worked sometimes, too. Ultimately, the best reaction is to have no reaction (I'm witchy and enjoy instilling the feeling of fear in the hearts of men at 5-foot-nothing).
I'm sorry that you're dealing with this...that women are STILL dealing with this garbage. If all else fails, hit them with one or all of these: