I'm sick of hearing how men aren't allowed to cry or be emotional like women (yes, because we women never get judged for showing emotion...), men suffer more during break ups, men are more lonely, men get less sex and dates, and on and on
Just STOP
Do these communities full of people spouting this crap know about the stressors women with mental health issues face? Autistic women (of whom's male counterparts get given a HELL of a lot more leeway than the females ever do - female autie here, hi 👋)? Shy women? Very introverted women?
So tired of this narrative. We are not all high flying super attractive alpha females with a girl gang, good job, loving family and sex with hot guys on speed dial. My last relationship was around 8 years ago, and I've only ever loved one man who turned out to be a massive narcissist in the end. I am also celibate and have been for some time now. Do women like me not really exist? Lol
They have hit the pay cap of life. It literally can't get any easier for them. They need to just get away from the damn screen for a bit so they can appreciate something, anything, but no. My kinkmeisha friends son is a 20yr old tate following mooch. He screams at everyone, refuses to work, and has convinced his underage girlfriend to never work any job above a cashier because that's "unattractive." She blames religion of course. Her religion, mens kink and porn, couldn't possibly be to blame for anything ever.
We just had a man in the states murder-suicide 7 people because his dick was sad. He was molesting his step daughters and their friends. His wife more than likely was cool with it since there was lube, handcuffs and sex toys littered all around the house. Still not enough for him though.
Sorry for the tangent I'm just tired of people who are addicted to their phones, porn, social media, reddit, etc. Thinking that they are special, unique and edgy because they are completely dopamine fried, and only extremes can make them feel *anything*. They not only aren't as special or cool as they think, but they are the norm. The average. Boring. Predictably unsympathetic. With an army of cheerleader handmaidens who are so, so, so very cOoL.
As soon as I read the headline this image IMMEDIATELY came to mind:
https://ovarit.com/o/Radfemmery/39479/gender-is-a-prison-but-only-the-wardens-are-recognized-as-being-in-it
never get judged by our emotion? Oh we are judged. A loudmouth woman is called a Karen while men aren't called any names.
Anger is seen as childish behavior, crying is seen as unstable, raising your voice or stand your ground is seen as immature and being docile and quiet is called a level headed woman.
Biological males aren't erased like our biological sex is. Nobody calls a man persons who have the capacity to impregnate, or seed poppers, Sperm havers and all that jazz.
None of them had to write a poem to make perverts back off from male only spaces.
Feel free to read the poem "I am not a dress" and if men still believe they are worse off then look at Sharia law and male dominant religions, If that's not enough then look at the statistics, women are more likely to be killed, and not by strangers but by their own husbands and male relatives, even their sons can be their killer.
Men are free as a bird since birth, they are never judged or held accountable besides being told they are assholes here and there but besides that tings get swept under the rub because it's a woman's fault some how. dead beat fathers, absent fathers, abusive fathers are all the blame of women because it's her fault.
Women should be free as a bird but society denies them that, even in the household women are not allowed to be free because she'll be better off as a bird with clipped wings.
Girls will be sheltered and have fear mongering tactics thrown at them. Wife training since childhood and be groomed high standards are discouraged so that a scrote would want them.
Boys will be boys while their parents coddle their delusion that they are better leaders than women and deserve freebies and handouts because they have ding dong.
Yep I fit all of the descriptions you just listed and In the same boat! I've been celibate and not dating for 5 years now and I'm early 30s childfree. I think most of what is discussed as far as NVM term here actually describes a narcissist. So basically most FDS members have been downtrodden and abused by narcissist men and are Here to fight back against narcissistic abuse of women in the dating world. My channel is Narc Poacher if you are ever interested in checking out more about narcissists. And Assc podcast is pretty good YT too for understanding their game. They don't take our struggles seriously cause men and the world doesn't see us as human only men are humans with actual emotions.
I used to have compassion for men until I noticed that the same men who expected compassion from me when they talked about men's issues would show a shocking lack of empathy whenever I tried to talk about women's issues. That's when I realised that there's this double standard in society where men and pick-mes (i.e. the majority of society) are advocating for men's issues while very few people (basically the few women who aren't pick-mes) are advocating for women's issues. Once I realised that, I stopped caring about men's issues and made a conscious decision to only advocate for women.
Its literally the consequences of their actions. Men are lonely because they are often bad friends and bad partners. They get less sex because they dont invest in themselves, think sex is their birth right and still are bad at it. And the best part is, they always say that women are the problem!!
These men cant accept we are normal people, thats their biggest battle. Men are the only creatures on earth that fight the people they wanna be with, its so dumb. Dont you think its funny how scrotes will see a guy that gets a lot of women and not "battle" with him to get the womens attention, he legit starts argueing with the women for liking hot men. Its fucking insane, which is why I am convinced these dudes wanna be women. There is no other explanation imo.
I cant take them seriously, just go to the male rights sub and you will feel sorry for them because despite their fights being about how other men wronged them (being drafted, losing court cases, etc.) every threat mentions women. Because these subs never where about helping men (which is so sad! I want men to help each other grow and be genuinely happy. I even went to sub to maybe educate myself about mens struggles because unlike them, I see mens suffering as a human rights issue and dont follow a stupid personal agenda.) Thesr subs where about proving that they suffer more than women.
Please, yesterday I was watching a video about a wholesome animal being funny and there were still mysogynistic comments under it. You cant escape it, which is why I dont fucking care when men complain about their problems to "show me how bad they have it". Talk to other men about it.
SIDENOTE- I didn't mean to come across like I was saying those kinds of women who I describe in the last paragraph are completely privileged and don't deal with misogyny. I just meant not all women are this stereotype MRAs and the like seem to have in their heads of being popular (and neurotypical I guess), possessing supermodel looks, having lots of friends and bfs / sex from hot guys, understanding families, people to talk to, etc while men are all alone and totes underprivileged
If a man shows negative emotion it is his natural masculine alpha rage OR he is so brave and comfortable in his masculinity for crying.
When a woman shows justified negative emotion even once she can be instantly labeled as "crazy".