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If you have a paying job, hold onto it for dear life.
I was faced with either sleeping in my car and cutting contact immediately with my toxic narcissistic parents trying to put me in the middle of their marriage/communication problem or calling an ex-scrotes that I long ago broke up with, I have zero desire to ever go back to any exes or deal with men romantically after the most recent one disappointed me.
I'm literally a month or two, depending how fast I can get done to getting my bachelors. I don't want to live with people anymore. No friends, no scrote, no family, no roommates. I much much rather live alone.
Yall, my car is old. I'm pretty much the most vulnerable 'person' to myself. I can't be doing the car sleeping, homeless sleeping, womens shelter dwelling person. I've worked too hard to be this messed up in life, all because I come from poverty.
It's going to be a rough next two months.
Men even your own son who expect you to stop working don’t love you. Your career is your life raft, keep it in the background or in the center of your life but never abandon it for a male. You can work less but never stop. Sorry ladies but your little Etsy shop wont save you, believing men wont save you. A career will.
Men either trap you or parasite of you. I followed a kawaii artist and at first her finance placed a few of his art to sell and it seemed fine but then most of his stuff seems to dominate her cute pink vibe and his art is even on the banner during comic con conventions.
Most men are in it for themselves, they either take away or dominate.
OP it's hard to hash out your details, but I would say your best bet is to start job hunting ASAP, even though your bachelors is done in 2 months. Are you working right now? Any small income will make a difference.
It may be worth it to do a women's shelter for 2 months. Almost any money you make you can save. I would start looking for cheaper housing in a decent area. Studio apartments I think would be your best bet.
Once you get a tad more stable and maybe land a job in line with your bachelors, you have the right idea.... do not live with people. Any roommates I've ever had we ended up hating each other and I got screwed over countless times by them, usually financially. Men always screwed me over in living situations, too.
Two months might seem long, but it is also short in a way! Eye on the prize, chin up. Find some resources around you that can help you during this time, job hunt, and keep your eyes peeled for an apartment.