This QUEEN in 1876 who acknowledged publicly she was glad her husband was dead

Honestly probably got bullied into a young marriage and had to sit through constant cheating and abuse.

Also, it's based how it says "my husband." Usually men's tomb stones just have their names, while women's tomb stones will say "Alice, wife of John Smith" or "wife of John Smith" or simply "his wife" (if it's a family plot.)

Fuck that. Enforce the matriarchy. A woman and her family.

She had more freedom as a widow than a wife.