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I never knew what exactly I wanted to be when I grew up, but I think this is it! I think I just grew up today, and I love who I am! :)
Don’t get me wrong my lovely ladies, there is work to be done. However I am ever so capable of doing it, and what’s even better is I will enjoy EVERY minute of the journey! It’s so amazing.
Trigger warning: I have been in a few long term relationships, some of them not that terrible. I am near CERTAIN that I could not have achieved this had I been with a man. So if you absolutely must find one, may not want to read the rest as you may get jealous hahaha,
I will admit first hand that some of the conditions I was born into (mostly relating to education, circumstances and opportunities etc) were favorable, but I certainly am sure you personally would agree if I told you my life story that I also had significant set backs too.
Some good rolls of dice and some bad rolls of dice and some perservwrence and work on my part here I am just realizing that I have no need for a partner to feel safe or happy or complete. I currently am the happiest I have ever been! No man needed! It can be done, and it is AMAZING.
And I’m not just talking about success or financial stability. I mean BLISS. Love the earth, love the birds! The journey is AMAZING, is every day a little slice of authentic heaven, kind of happy. BLISS even through the struggles of life! Thank goodness I am in no pain, no serious struggle, but even my medium to small struggles are manageable now instead of how they felt crushing before! I can feel life! I got this! The journey itself is beautiful and I am one with the universe!
The reason I can observe this so vividly in my personal case is because my whole life I have struggled even experiencing seasons. I suspect this is related to my recent ADHD diagnosis.
But I FLIPPED that around in some amazing way. These are the only reasons I can think of:
with minimal effort just adding some more heart healthy foods into my diet my whole biology transformed? (I mean sounds romantic in a naturistic kind of way but realistically you guys … probably not this one alone)
With some effort I have a strong community of women I socialize regularly with
I have no man who can treat me badly, who I am in some way dependent on financial or otherwise
Assuming I’m not missing something big, these are the only thing that changed from a couple of weeks ago to today almost like night and day . So let’s figure out assuming these are the only contributions which contributed more
has been just maybe a couple of weeks. Nature would be magic if this was the only reason - 10% contribution to the outcome is very generous u think
Community of women - I think this and the last reason are both strong possibilities to be the sole main reason so I’m splitting 45%.
No man needed, tolerated 45%