I was reading lundys book and he said therapy doesn’t stop abusive mens behavior it just makes them better manipulators.
Men are abusive because of how they think its not because of trauma or psychological disorders. The only things that will make them stop is if the abusive tactics stop benefiting them or they decide to start thinking differently on their own. (which is rare)
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"i will not lower my standards because you refuse to get therapy" (paraphrasing)
unfortunately, i think 90% of scrotes are beyond therapy.