Queen rants about Scrotes attempt at extracting emotional labor and free attention, Scrotes are MAD

(I cant see the picture but I found it on reveddit. I knew it would be something mild since men were so upset and calling her toxic for not teaching a stranger whose also an asshole how to better manipulate the next woman.)

Went on a date with a guy today. He had no social skills whatsoever in person. Asked me no questions about myself, constantly monologued about himself, talked down on others, and in general just insufferable to be around. It didn't help that he was dressed in baggy clothes and clearly hadn't had a haircut in a while. We walked and talked with coffee for about an hour, and then I said I needed to go. He very confidently said he had a great time, and asked what I was doing this weekend. I told him I didn't feel a romantic connection, but wished him all the best and hoped he found what he was looking for. I went on my way and got on a bus to see he had blown up my app with questions about what he did wrong and how he felt I had used him for a free coffee (I offered to pay, he insisted), and asked if I would give him feedback on what to do better next time.

My dudes. This is not how this works. First off, I am not the Speaker For All Women. What I found insufferable about this guy would probably be someone else's cup of tea. This isn't a fucking video game where I will just message you "oh yeah, next time you're in Central Park turn left at the state of Columbus and double tap A, this will unlock a feature where the woman loses all her willpower and everything you say will add to your charisma and relationship score." Like seriously? What are you expecting here?

Also in what world do I owe you an exit interview just because you paid for my coffee? We are strangers! I am not your life coach or your dating coach or your therapis

(This is my favorite part because)

When I was younger I'd fall into the trap of reassuring these guys that they're super great and blah blah blah and then it's a fucking hour later and I'm still stuck convincing this guy that there's someone out there for him for sure.

(Women do this to avoid getting murdered. This is literally a fawn response lol. All the men in the comments saying shes "playing the victim" by bringing up womens safety.🙄 They think women lie and exaggerate when they themselves froth at the mouth, on behalf of other men, at the idea of a woman saying "no." Look at them. They cant even handle another man being told no. And they're like "ree! You lie about how violent men are!" Fucking uncanny valley.)

I don't think men understand what's at risk for women. Women are killed all the time for politely saying no to men. If you need examples, go to r/whenwomenrefuse and sort by "Best of All Time" and just scroll for a bit. In the US 82% of women will experience sexual harassment or assault. One in five women will experience attempted or completed rape in her lifetime. We have been raised and trained to be polite and vague because anything else can cost us our lives. You really think you're owed accurate constructive criticism by women? You're mad you hear "I didn't feel a spark" or "I realized I'm not ready to date?" Why the hell should we risk our safety for the sake of your self improvement. You think men are going to respond WELL to "yeah you aren't capable of holding a conversation and you're 50 pounds heavier in person than your photos." No. Get over yourselves.