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A woman decides to take in her bf who became homeless. She even goes as far as to pay all the bills and rent for him. He lived rent free;. How does the scrote repay her kindness? By screaming at her and cheating on her, of course! Luckily the woman kicked his worhtless ass to the streets .
I took in my homeless boy friend and he was cheating on me so I kicked him out.
What are some other stories you've seen in your life that show why you should never help a homeless scrote?
Homeless men are scum and most behave like animals. As another poster said: you need to fuck up really badly and alienate every single person or institution who wants to help you to end up homeless in a first world country, especially if we consider how much men get away with anyway just because they are men. Don't ever assume you are going to be the exception they won't harm or scam.
I volunteered for a food bank as a student and was usually just behind the scenes sorting donations and helping with the part of the organization that took care of stray animals. The food bank also had a little food truck they used to bring hot soup, sleeping bags etc. to the homeless in winter. One winter, the flu went around and most of the food truck people were sick, so they asked who could pitch in for a few nights. "How bad can it be to hand out soup to hungry people?" I thought.
Really bad, it turns out. You'd think there would be a little gratitude or at least basic decency. But no. In the three nights I was there, I was cursed at, had hot soup thrown at me because the guy didn't like it, got more gross sexual comments than I could count, was threatened multiple times and spat on once when I wouldn't give them cash or cigarettes instead of soup, had homeless guys follow me to my car asking for money, sex, a ride or to stay at my apartment and accost me on the street when I passed them the next day and so on. They pissed, puked and shat on the street right on front of the food truck in full view of everyone. Shot up drugs, started fights etc. A person who volunteered there more often also told me that many come back for a new sleeping bag every few nights because they either sell the one the got for drug money or just leave it wherever they slept because they know they can get a new one for free.
That's why I laugh when people say "You wouldn't think like that about homeless men if you volunteered in an organization trying to help them once and got to know them." I wasn't prejudiced and maybe a little naive before I got to know them. Getting to know them only taught me that the absolute majority of them are beyond saving.
If you're in the U.S., never help a homeless person period.
In first-world countries, you have to try really hard, over a long period of time, to get to a place where no family, friend, or homeless housing organization will house you. It really takes effort.
In first-world countries, all homeless adults are trash. Especially the men.
It's also worth pointing out that lots of countries have "squatter's rights" or other laws that give people rights to a property they're staying in even if they're not paying rent or contributing to bills. My country has such laws and I wasn't even aware of this until my parents let a single father stay in their holiday cottage "until he could get back on his feet". Once he was there, he refused to leave and it was almost impossible to get rid of him. Also as time went on, we found out that his sob story wasn't nearly as sympathetic as we'd been led to believe. Eventually he left but not without leaving the house absolutely filthy (though thankfully nothing was broken). After that fiasco, I decided I would NEVER let anyone stay in my house rent-free, not even "till they get on their feet" or "for a little while". Anyway, the moral of this story and the one above is never let a man live in your house, no matter what his sob story is. (Plus I guarantee you, his sob story is either exaggurated or a flat out lie).
I have both helped a homeless man (a few homeless people) and been homeless myself.
It really is a toss up.
When I was homeless it was after I told my family to not contact me for some very valid reasons.
I had moved to a better apartment, but then had lost my job after they hired new editors.
The men were sometimes predatory, but the women were mostly just sad.
Some were on drugs, but one I met who lived in her car was actually just paying debts off quicker. I'm still friends with two of the women.
I had HOUSED a homeless man for a month, until he snapped on me.
Id thankfully installed locks on our doors, after hed texted me he was freezing to death. (He actually was, the ambulance won't pick you up until you're nerve damaged).
So after a month of me clothing and feeding him for free, he'd started banging on my door at 12am demanding cigarettes I'd forgotten to pick up.
Elderly dude in a wheelchair, but I'm not ever having a grown man yell at me in my own home, so I opened the door, told him to shut the fuck up or I will call the cops. Packed his shit in my car while he kept apologizing. Got him downstairs, and dropped him right back off.
His sob story NOW is that I was his GIRLFRIEND who gave him false hope in humanity and stole his money.
Found out he was telling people this two years after when I was eating downtown and he rolled in and the cashier told me what he'd been saying about me when he tried to play friendly but "s@D"(tm).
I will give any homeless person food, and my homeless female friend got her own place a while ago, and took ME out to eat.
But I will never EVER host a homeless male again. Even if they're too old and frail to assault you, they will make you out to be a villain if you dont keep giving while they just sit and don't try.
I became homeless after escaping domestic violence. So I can't say "all homeless people are bad" because there were good people in that community that I knew and who treated me with kindness and looked out for me. However, I would caution women not to take in a homeless man because squatter's laws exist and after a certain amount of days you can't get him to leave unless you take him to court. Also because your home should be where you go to feel safe and to escape. Not where you go to wait hand and foot on a guest who won't leave. These men can be very charming and good at sex, but that doesn't mean they actually like you, it means you have resources that they need.
Yeah I agree that hosting a homeless man is too risky. If you let someone live in your home and they turn violent, you have nowhere safe to go. Your home should be your safe space. You have to be very careful who you let into it.