This is probably going to be the last thing I ever write about this ex of mine. He was the first guy I ever loved and we broke up 5 years ago. A few days ago, I found his love letter, and chucked it in the trash thinking it was meh 🫤. Well, today I received a hair clip that I couldn’t get during the relationship because I fell for the whole 50/50 relationship.
Anyways, during the relationship, we went to this crafts festival. I found this really cute hair clip that was about $20. It was handmade and super artisan. I never got the hair clip because I couldn’t afford it and my ex didn’t want to buy it for me. I’ve always had regret not buying it. A few weeks ago, I found the artist on Etsy and she was still selling the design. It was an instant no brainer. I had to pay an extra postage fee bc she no longer lives in America but it was totally worth it.
Now, this is probably the last post I write about him, because this is truly the last regret/sacrifice I have about him. All the things I wished he would have done and gotten for me are now all satisfied by me.
I have spent the last five years learning how to make myself happy and be less lonely. I understand all my triggers and I know how to fix myself whenever I feel lonely and sad. However, I still think it would be nice to have a companion (just not him), but it’s not a priority for me. That being said, I’m ready to meet other people and I feel like something good is going to happen ! 😊
Don’t want to minimize the post because it’s just an awesome post and very authentic and real and yet still a success story (despite the lack of quality in men out there, we women are awesome and make the world awesome lol!)
But…. Link for the artsy hair pin please sister 😂😂😂
I‘m happy for you, able to move on and love yourself! Kudos for getting the hair clip - we truly are our own White Knights. 💕👏