My husband learned the right way

@Nefertiti its impossible to change someone but if they want to listen and be good enough they will

Absolutely this. This anecdotal story that the OP (orginal poster) is relating should be taken as an exception to the rule, not an example. The more work you do for a man in a relationship, the more work you will feel compelled to do in a relationship.

@Runner_Woman https://youtu.be/FyVaFel5Zsw

@Zero620 https://youtu.be/FyVaFel5Zsw

The western film industry has been male dominated for a long time. This seeps into the visuals behind movies. The male gaze, simply put, is positioning the camera as a man would look at a woman. The way the woman is looked at is objectifying and removes her agency as it reduces her to a sexual object. You have likely seen this through close ups of certain body parts, slow panning over the body. There are a number of excellent youtube videos on this matter.

@Shelly Harris a feminist wrote about it and there’s videos showing what it is on YouTube

@Shelly Harris oh boy you better strap in. You're about to bite into a big piece of the misogyny pie