Anyone else noticed that black women, especially older black women, often have the most based insightful advice? Like their perspective on things is so clear and they tell it how it is. This is something I've noticed in real life too.
I'm in favor of LAT relationshiops. ( Living apart together) Simply because If he angers me I want to remove myself until I'm ready to talk to him again. Not resentfully put up with him and hear him moan about communication. When you are angry and remain in your room men will see that as a good excuse to meet up with his buddies and leave the children with you so that you have no choice but to leave your room and cater to them.
But I've been screwed over thanfully early in the relationships so that I never had to feel that my days as Barbera the builder has wasted my life away. they showed their true face less than a year. which is good.
Still I always say you should put men on lifetime probation, disrespect means end of relationship, getting between my dreams, career because of jealousy or any other reason means goodbye.
Bullying, name calling, taunting coming late, forgetting my birthday is also disrespect. Anything that offends me or make me feel under appreciated is disrespect.
And he needs to be able to cook and clean for himself and love doing that because I'm not doing it for him or any man. Because men like to cook simple for you when it's their turn but expect you to do their best in the kitchen for them. Nope you do it yourself.
This is also beneficial for him because if he wants the relationship to end but doesn't want to get rid of his nice guy mask all he has to do is disrespect me and I'm gone, he no longer had to do it for weeks until I got the hint and maybe try to be nice again because his guilt is playing up.
I finished the very insightful video you posted and went on the one about men on the down-low.
At the end, when she's talking about men with evil energy and how if you have sex with them now their evil energy is in you...whew, chile!🤣😒
A true happiness, she says, is when you are released of "all negative energies" and that's not something you can ever have with evil energy man. You could have a measure of happiness but not true happiness.
I feel that was absolutely scary and accurate. Enough said, that's a darn good reason to stay away from these narcs or LVM/ZERO vm.
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Anyone else noticed that black women, especially older black women, often have the most based insightful advice? Like their perspective on things is so clear and they tell it how it is. This is something I've noticed in real life too.
I'm in favor of LAT relationshiops. ( Living apart together) Simply because If he angers me I want to remove myself until I'm ready to talk to him again. Not resentfully put up with him and hear him moan about communication. When you are angry and remain in your room men will see that as a good excuse to meet up with his buddies and leave the children with you so that you have no choice but to leave your room and cater to them.
But I've been screwed over thanfully early in the relationships so that I never had to feel that my days as Barbera the builder has wasted my life away. they showed their true face less than a year. which is good.
Still I always say you should put men on lifetime probation, disrespect means end of relationship, getting between my dreams, career because of jealousy or any other reason means goodbye.
Bullying, name calling, taunting coming late, forgetting my birthday is also disrespect. Anything that offends me or make me feel under appreciated is disrespect.
And he needs to be able to cook and clean for himself and love doing that because I'm not doing it for him or any man. Because men like to cook simple for you when it's their turn but expect you to do their best in the kitchen for them. Nope you do it yourself.
This is also beneficial for him because if he wants the relationship to end but doesn't want to get rid of his nice guy mask all he has to do is disrespect me and I'm gone, he no longer had to do it for weeks until I got the hint and maybe try to be nice again because his guilt is playing up.
Thank you for sharing, love her wisdom.
I finished the very insightful video you posted and went on the one about men on the down-low.
At the end, when she's talking about men with evil energy and how if you have sex with them now their evil energy is in you...whew, chile!🤣😒
A true happiness, she says, is when you are released of "all negative energies" and that's not something you can ever have with evil energy man. You could have a measure of happiness but not true happiness.
I feel that was absolutely scary and accurate. Enough said, that's a darn good reason to stay away from these narcs or LVM/ZERO vm.
Love her channel!
I love Miss Faye. She's like the no-nonsense aunty that I never had.