92 year old grandma gives advice about ex's.

Not just independent but be your own nurturer and provider, don't expect men to be good to you because men will only lead to disappointments. Be good, nurturing and providing to yourself, what others can do to you make you happy you can do for yourself, Everything can be mimicked and recreated. Want a family? be your own family, Men can and never will be a better asset in your life than you. Stop needing men emotionally, stop needing their money, and you will see for yourself that you feel nothing when they walk away.

Women who moan that they regret feminism or that they have no idea where the good men have gone still emotionally depend on the romance novel men they want to meet in real life.

I'm not saying that your career should be your main focus but it's more valuable than men who come and go.

What do you value more? A house on a dudes name that can be taken from you whenever he wants it back or your own home that you build yourself and nobody but you can rule over that?

Do you value a man who can walk away? or do you value your ability to keep a roof over your head?

Everything a man gives is temporary, their love, their loyalty is trivial. But what you build for yourself always stays. And even if it does fade away it remains decades longer than a man ever will.

The choice is yours.

You either let a man destroy you and end up with nothing or you'll be a mountain that can't be moved.

You are either a pawn men can sacrifice to get what they want or you are the Queen on the chess board that can't have her movement controlled.

Love Grandma Droniak’s TikToks. 💕

Oh My g-d she's incredible. Thank you for sharing.