For men, the love of a good woman isn’t rare. My evil ex husband is on Wife #3 after abusing me until I left and his 2nd wife dying. There’s always another girl out there with stars in her eyes willing to love a man more than he loves her. That’s why they are the way they are. Until more women wake up and realize that being a good woman doesn’t make you rare to men, very few women will have good relationships. Your love isn’t rare to men, but your self respect and not being willing to put up with disrespect will be.
But realistically your standards and self respect are tied into how you love. So to me it is rare. I don't find loving someone to the point of your own destruction is really love.
For men, the love of a good woman isn’t rare. My evil ex husband is on Wife #3 after abusing me until I left and his 2nd wife dying. There’s always another girl out there with stars in her eyes willing to love a man more than he loves her. That’s why they are the way they are. Until more women wake up and realize that being a good woman doesn’t make you rare to men, very few women will have good relationships. Your love isn’t rare to men, but your self respect and not being willing to put up with disrespect will be.