I’m not doubting everyone else’s experience - just hearing all these corporate episodes is making me feel extremely lucky about all my employers (moderately male dominated field too, except my current nuclear team is about 50/50)
Senior year of college I went to one corporate recruiting interview and asked about work life balance and the lady’s gut reaction was to go “HA!” So that was the end of that.
Chose a small consulting firm, which couldn’t pay me the super great amounts of big companies (though I could still easily afford to live alone in a a HCOL area), but because it was small I actually got to do all the parts of projects it takes you years to be able to do at the huge companies. And because I was more than 0.01% of their employees my work mattered enough to grant me decent security even though I was an at will employee. Actual work life balance let me do a part time masters. Less promotion steps available between me and buying the LLC than a corporate employer, but I was only planning on staying a few years anyway.
Took my actual, non-glorified-data-entry experience and my masters and got a cushy GS job (which means, unlike most people in the US, I am not an at will employee). Federal government has lots of fully remote jobs now, and GS pay outside of big cities is higher than you’d think.
Women being shocked that they were laid off from companies that they gave their all for is eerily similar to the marriage lie sold to women. How many wives throughout history thought that their marriage is the end-all-be-all, only to suddenly get dropped when they get cancer or when he finds a new younger girl?
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I’m not doubting everyone else’s experience - just hearing all these corporate episodes is making me feel extremely lucky about all my employers (moderately male dominated field too, except my current nuclear team is about 50/50)
Senior year of college I went to one corporate recruiting interview and asked about work life balance and the lady’s gut reaction was to go “HA!” So that was the end of that.
Chose a small consulting firm, which couldn’t pay me the super great amounts of big companies (though I could still easily afford to live alone in a a HCOL area), but because it was small I actually got to do all the parts of projects it takes you years to be able to do at the huge companies. And because I was more than 0.01% of their employees my work mattered enough to grant me decent security even though I was an at will employee. Actual work life balance let me do a part time masters. Less promotion steps available between me and buying the LLC than a corporate employer, but I was only planning on staying a few years anyway.
Took my actual, non-glorified-data-entry experience and my masters and got a cushy GS job (which means, unlike most people in the US, I am not an at will employee). Federal government has lots of fully remote jobs now, and GS pay outside of big cities is higher than you’d think.
Highly recommend.
Women being shocked that they were laid off from companies that they gave their all for is eerily similar to the marriage lie sold to women. How many wives throughout history thought that their marriage is the end-all-be-all, only to suddenly get dropped when they get cancer or when he finds a new younger girl?
Related to capitalism &feminsm: https://amandamontei.substack.com/p/moms-are-quiet-quitting-housework