I will never ever ever do anal. My religious anti-divorce excluding cases of abuse and cheating mom even told me many times that if my husband so much as asks for anal, to divorce him immediately. In the event that a man decides to even stick a finger in, I am just going to let nature respond and poop on him.
I won't do anal anymore. There is some pleasure in it, mainly due to past trauma in which I was made to associate being dominated and physically harmed with being loved. I no longer so much as let a finger travel down there, because you know they are just trying to prime you to stick their *I don't know what to call it anymore* inside. Also, a lot of scrotes will push for bareback, asserting that you can't get pregnant through the rear (you can, as the semen can travel), and that they're "clean as a whistle" and oh-so-faithful (but as we know, most lie). And do not ever let their tongue travel back there, because they will expect you to pay the piper (can you imagine tongueing a man's hole, knowing how poor there hygiene usually is? BARF!)
Even if you both have good hygiene and washed right before the act, there still a risk of bad infections if something (tongue, fingers, penis, toy, condom...) that has been used anally gets used somewhere else (e.g. kissing/oral sex after rimming, oral or vaginal sex after anal sex without washing in between, using the same toy or condom for both...). It's not just a matter of it feeling icky and unhygienic. There are naturally occuring bacteria back there that simply do not belong in your mouth or vagina.
That's why women are taught to wipe front to back and not the other way around. You also (hopefully...) don't eat or prepare food after wiping your butt without washing your hands in between. Why is this concept so difficult to understand for people when it comes to sex?
I told a friend about the case of the 16yr old with the colostomy bag. She said that's a made up conspiracy theory because shes done it and shes fine. 🙄 This was on the subject of bdsm being standard now. She has a teen daughter and I was giving her a heads up that consent isn't really a thing with bdsm anymore, it just *happens*. And its rife with bullying
Haven't listened yet but good to hear people discussing it. I used to engage in this when I was in my 20s because I felt I had to in order to keep a guy interested. He actually really messed that area up for me (and he was a really horrible person insulting me during and after sex). I just wish I hadn't destroyed part of my body over a really awful, man.
I'm not a homosexual male, so my anus is not open for business, EVER. If anal is what I have to do to get a man, then I will just not have a man. The rectum is where the nerves end that come from your organs and spine, and anal sex stops peristaltic action for up to 8 hours after penetration. That's just one reason why homosexual males have a low life expectancy. They have food and bacteria rotting and not moving through their intestines due to damaging their rectums. They have to get sewed up, and they end up being incontinent and having to wear a diaper. If a male wants rectum, he should go be with his own kind and not expect women to harm themselves in a futile attempt to please a homosexual male. Sodomy is not about love. It's about domination and control. That's why they do it to each other in prison. It's considered shameful to let another man sodomize them, yet it's supposedly okay to sodomize a woman. F that.
Great podcast! It really is absolutely criminal young girls aren't being warned about anal sex, men think it's an ok thing to demand of women, and GP's are "scared" to talk about it because it would be considered "judgemental" by the bonkers sex pozzy hit-me-with-a-cricket-bat-twist-my-nipples-and-spit-on-me crowd.
Thankfully, I've been lucky in my life not to have men pressure me into it...although one did try to 'slip it in' 🙄 He was corrected...🥊
Anyway, off topic because this makes me really upset if I dwell on it too much, here's a skit that first popped into my head when I read "Butt Sex" lol:
For context, this is cast members of Whose Line is it Anyway doing a show in Vegas. The game in this bit is actually called, "Whose Line" and the two chosen for the skit have to act it out and insert random bits of dialogue written on pieces of paper by the audience. The actors have no idea what's on the paper, they just have to work with it once they say it! I recommend watching the video before reading any of the YT comments so the jokes aren't ruined =)
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A man who wants to sodomize you does not love you, and probably actively hates you and wants to use "sex" to express that hatred.
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I will never ever ever do anal. My religious anti-divorce excluding cases of abuse and cheating mom even told me many times that if my husband so much as asks for anal, to divorce him immediately. In the event that a man decides to even stick a finger in, I am just going to let nature respond and poop on him.
I won't do anal anymore. There is some pleasure in it, mainly due to past trauma in which I was made to associate being dominated and physically harmed with being loved. I no longer so much as let a finger travel down there, because you know they are just trying to prime you to stick their *I don't know what to call it anymore* inside. Also, a lot of scrotes will push for bareback, asserting that you can't get pregnant through the rear (you can, as the semen can travel), and that they're "clean as a whistle" and oh-so-faithful (but as we know, most lie). And do not ever let their tongue travel back there, because they will expect you to pay the piper (can you imagine tongueing a man's hole, knowing how poor there hygiene usually is? BARF!)
I told a friend about the case of the 16yr old with the colostomy bag. She said that's a made up conspiracy theory because shes done it and shes fine. 🙄 This was on the subject of bdsm being standard now. She has a teen daughter and I was giving her a heads up that consent isn't really a thing with bdsm anymore, it just *happens*. And its rife with bullying
I love love love loved this!
I've always hated anal sex. Feels so degrading.
Haven't listened yet but good to hear people discussing it. I used to engage in this when I was in my 20s because I felt I had to in order to keep a guy interested. He actually really messed that area up for me (and he was a really horrible person insulting me during and after sex). I just wish I hadn't destroyed part of my body over a really awful, man.
I'm not a homosexual male, so my anus is not open for business, EVER. If anal is what I have to do to get a man, then I will just not have a man. The rectum is where the nerves end that come from your organs and spine, and anal sex stops peristaltic action for up to 8 hours after penetration. That's just one reason why homosexual males have a low life expectancy. They have food and bacteria rotting and not moving through their intestines due to damaging their rectums. They have to get sewed up, and they end up being incontinent and having to wear a diaper. If a male wants rectum, he should go be with his own kind and not expect women to harm themselves in a futile attempt to please a homosexual male. Sodomy is not about love. It's about domination and control. That's why they do it to each other in prison. It's considered shameful to let another man sodomize them, yet it's supposedly okay to sodomize a woman. F that.
Great podcast! It really is absolutely criminal young girls aren't being warned about anal sex, men think it's an ok thing to demand of women, and GP's are "scared" to talk about it because it would be considered "judgemental" by the bonkers sex pozzy hit-me-with-a-cricket-bat-twist-my-nipples-and-spit-on-me crowd.
Thankfully, I've been lucky in my life not to have men pressure me into it...although one did try to 'slip it in' 🙄 He was corrected...🥊
Anyway, off topic because this makes me really upset if I dwell on it too much, here's a skit that first popped into my head when I read "Butt Sex" lol:
For context, this is cast members of Whose Line is it Anyway doing a show in Vegas. The game in this bit is actually called, "Whose Line" and the two chosen for the skit have to act it out and insert random bits of dialogue written on pieces of paper by the audience. The actors have no idea what's on the paper, they just have to work with it once they say it! I recommend watching the video before reading any of the YT comments so the jokes aren't ruined =)
A man who wants to sodomize you does not love you, and probably actively hates you and wants to use "sex" to express that hatred.