Fantastic episode, thank Savannah and Reaux!

As for suggestions on the direction of the podcast, I’d be sorry to see you two step back but I think giving you time to focus on other things, and fresh ideas from new hosts would be a great idea for FDS.

As a side, whatever happened to Female Political Strategy? I really enjoyed it but it seemed to end far before Lilith took her leave.

Can’t wait for this week’s episode!

I'm glad you ladies spoke on the Hypergamy 'gurus'. I have not been sitting well with some of the stuff I have been seeing coming out in that realm... I appreciate your takes. Sorry to hear you may be stepping back from the podcast as, like many here, I appreciate your input. Change is the only constant, as they say...

Loved this episode! An episode about the nuances of moving to work with people of a different class and how to fit in you mentioned also sounds fascinating. As to the state of the pod, the three of you are so much fun and have taught us all so much, so I would wish to have you on it. But i'm also grateful for all you have done so far and wish you the very best queens 😘

I’m pleased this episode had more to do with strategy and less focus on pop culture. I hope the podcast continues to elaborate on different points of the handbook and what to look out for when meeting scrotes in the wild.

For the love of everything female, don't date these losers born into wealth who got everything handed to them unless you're one of them yourself. It's disgusting that aristocracy exists but it won't go away and a way of dealing with it isn't by making yourself whatever they want.

I've been waiting for this one and saving it for a time I can ~listen actively~. And then may have to finally write my post about rich scrotes vs decent rich guys and vetting lol

I grew up upper middle class, got a good degree, have an UMC job now. For some reason I decided to do sugar dating for fun several years ago. Still didn't have the self esteem NOT to do it, but was secure enough that I wasn't really blinded by the money - which let me get a pretty decent read on these scrotes and their tactics. Sometimes they would straight up explain their scrote tactics to me for fun because I came off enough "not like the other girls".

My boyfriend now (met outside that) is also rich. We kinda balance out though (assortative mating wise) as he grew up very working class, and we have almost exactly equal education. I could be as rich as him now, I just care about work life balance more than 0%.

But he's also into the whole philanthropy circuit where we live and so is kinda the "broke guy" of his social group. And oh my lord the dirt I hear from him about them 😂 (his close friends are all from childhood and college and are grounded humans, which is good)

They've said it on other podcasts that touch on the subject so I'm sure they'll say it on this one: you need to know in your soul you can look these guys in the eye and say "fuck that and fuck off" to get any respect. Like you need to have that aura about you. And the way to get that aura is self esteem and individual financial security.

You have to know that you will actually be able to turn one down when they offer you 25k for an evening. (Because they will.) And then enjoy the shocked pikachu face.

There was a quote somewhere in a handbook post about being an immovable mover, remaining nonplussed and unbothered and seeming to float but be firm. You need to be able to still be that way around wealth or wealth will use you up and spit you out.

Ooo can't wait to listen to this since hypergamy has blown up and I need an FDS perspective on it

What does it take to become a new host?

It's going to be upsetting to not have you three doing the podcast. I understand that change is inevitable but I feel like you three with your SOLID unwavering stance on things provide quite a pillar of support so I do hope you guys stay in another way and not just behind the scenes. That being said good luck with whatever is happening in your lives.

Im confused, is this a podcast episode or a post on patreon? Bc I’m not seeing either.