I couldn't get through the whole article. I had to fight nausea at:
'I helped create his online dating profile, took sexy pictures of him to upload, and sent him advice articles on gay relationships. In February 2018, Stuart took off his wedding ring and gave it to me for safekeeping. Then he semi-moved to a larger, nearby city to explore.'
It only got worse when the article mentions how young the new lover is.
Anyone in the UK who has followed the Phillip Schofield story, and what he did to his confused poor wife, will probably realise there seems to be a movement towards making women absolutely doormats for closeted but somehow still cheating gay husbands.
There is no excuse. Men like this can struggle without harming anyone. They choose to do what they do, using women for social status and emotional labour--this is abuse.
Yup there is absolutely a movement to morph "I'm with a cheater/porn addict/pedophile/user/hobosexual" into 'queer'. Its so common now that queer largely = straight unhappy couples with "kink" sprinkled in.
Omg this is a train wreck. Typical "ethical" non monogamy. I'm surprised she has a based therapist tho. And she fucking branded herself with a tattoo to remind herself of her cuckoldery. My god. Some people just want to be martyrs.
While listening to this I thought "the least she can do is leave him when he gives her an std. Literally no one would blame her, not even the most sex pozzy people. That is a very reasonable line in the sand."
Nope. She still stays after stds.
At least she gets to fuck her husbands boyfriends. I bet there's still some sort of rule to cock block her though. There always is. Poly couples are always fighting because it doesn't matter how simple, or complex, the rules are, its about breaking said rules and hurting their partner. They just wanna cheat, but not be judged by General society. They don't give a dang about their partners feelings. (This shit just makes me judge them harder honestly. Instead of calling it ethical non monogamy or open, call it for what it is. Abusive. I'm in an abusive relationship.)
I have a coworker who very much reminds me of this article. She is sad because the man she wants doesn't want her back. She clearly wants commitment. And she is bitter because all of the sexual shit shes not actually into, butt stuff and orgies, open relationships, haven't paid off even one bit. All she gets is the occasional "I love you" from him. That's it. After FIVE years. No gifts no special events nothing. No man who actually loves you would watch you sob and vomit infront of him, after walking in on him with another woman. He doesn't love her. She is literally just maintenance sex and she knows it. And she doesn't even get a fucking title for it. 😢
I wish my friend would get a based therapist. She's sucked into the cool girl kinkmeisha persona so hard that she can't outright admit that she doesn't like her situationship. The truth comes out in accidental blurts. And I wish she would just fuck other men. Quit being committed to a non-committed relationship.
The most f up part of this is that in the past years, STD rates have been skyrocketing!!!https://www.popsci.com/uploads/2021/04/28/cropped-PSC3.png?auto=webp&width=180&height=180
Wow, that article is a dumpster fire. Insane levels of self-hate and pickme behaviour that made me cringe into next week. Her husband's sexuality doesn't give him an excuse to treat her like trash and cheat on her.
Poor woman thinks that kissing this homosexual male's ass who lied to her and stole nearly 3 decades of her life makes her the "better person." I feel so badly for her. Her self esteem has been flushed down the toilet and resides in the septic tank at this moment. To cook for and f*ck homosexual males just to try to fit in with your evil husband's lifestyle is beyond all belief. If this were me, I'd have divorced him and never spoken to him again as long as I lived. I know she's in shock and is dealing with sunken cost fallacy, but for God's sake, where is her dignity? Her self respect? Even if you hate yourself inside, you don't have to act like it! You can ask yourself, "What would a woman who loves herself do in this situation?" then do that instead of begging and performing for love that this man who loves dick is never gonna give you.
I just don't think a healthy woman would act or think like this. I'd put money on their relationship being one-sided with some, if not a lot, of emotional abuse. All that in addition to society constantly abusing women into this idea of being better than men by forsaking their own rights, wants, desires and self-respect.
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Sep 28, 2022
Even if the husband were straight, he could be attracted to other women, but, he doesn’t act on it because he is MARRIED. Doesn’t matter who you are attracted to, FFS! It’s about the love and commitment to your spouse.
It took me until very recently to FINALLY fully embrace my full sexuality spectrum. What I’m trying to say? Not long ago I finally fully realized I’m pansexual. HOWEVER! My husband, since I met him over TWELVE years ago knew that my sexuality (as in, sexual preferences) was somewhat fluid, and that I’ve ventured with women and GNC individuals as well. Likewise, he’s also someone who’s rather comfortable about exploring his own sexuality and isn’t afraid about societal “hear say” either. So we both went into our marriage knowing these things. In these twelve years, we’ve explored our sexuality WITHIN the confines of our marriage within ourselves. This had made our marriage closer and stronger. Thus, these sort of articles are very anger inducing to me. Why? If I had never bothered to hide my sexuality to my husband, and in the process managed to have a very strong, stable Union in the process, why these men do this?!
So GNC individuals are separate from women? You do realize that men and women can be gender-nonconforming, and that doesn't change their sex? Humans are a gonochoric species, so there are only 2 sexes. So why not say bisexual?
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I couldn't get through the whole article. I had to fight nausea at:
'I helped create his online dating profile, took sexy pictures of him to upload, and sent him advice articles on gay relationships. In February 2018, Stuart took off his wedding ring and gave it to me for safekeeping. Then he semi-moved to a larger, nearby city to explore.'
It only got worse when the article mentions how young the new lover is.
Anyone in the UK who has followed the Phillip Schofield story, and what he did to his confused poor wife, will probably realise there seems to be a movement towards making women absolutely doormats for closeted but somehow still cheating gay husbands.
There is no excuse. Men like this can struggle without harming anyone. They choose to do what they do, using women for social status and emotional labour--this is abuse.
Omg this is a train wreck. Typical "ethical" non monogamy. I'm surprised she has a based therapist tho. And she fucking branded herself with a tattoo to remind herself of her cuckoldery. My god. Some people just want to be martyrs.
While listening to this I thought "the least she can do is leave him when he gives her an std. Literally no one would blame her, not even the most sex pozzy people. That is a very reasonable line in the sand."
Nope. She still stays after stds.
At least she gets to fuck her husbands boyfriends. I bet there's still some sort of rule to cock block her though. There always is. Poly couples are always fighting because it doesn't matter how simple, or complex, the rules are, its about breaking said rules and hurting their partner. They just wanna cheat, but not be judged by General society. They don't give a dang about their partners feelings. (This shit just makes me judge them harder honestly. Instead of calling it ethical non monogamy or open, call it for what it is. Abusive. I'm in an abusive relationship.)
I have a coworker who very much reminds me of this article. She is sad because the man she wants doesn't want her back. She clearly wants commitment. And she is bitter because all of the sexual shit shes not actually into, butt stuff and orgies, open relationships, haven't paid off even one bit. All she gets is the occasional "I love you" from him. That's it. After FIVE years. No gifts no special events nothing. No man who actually loves you would watch you sob and vomit infront of him, after walking in on him with another woman. He doesn't love her. She is literally just maintenance sex and she knows it. And she doesn't even get a fucking title for it. 😢
I wish my friend would get a based therapist. She's sucked into the cool girl kinkmeisha persona so hard that she can't outright admit that she doesn't like her situationship. The truth comes out in accidental blurts. And I wish she would just fuck other men. Quit being committed to a non-committed relationship.
How low does your self-esteem have to be to tolerate this arrangement?
Wow, that article is a dumpster fire. Insane levels of self-hate and pickme behaviour that made me cringe into next week. Her husband's sexuality doesn't give him an excuse to treat her like trash and cheat on her.
Poor woman thinks that kissing this homosexual male's ass who lied to her and stole nearly 3 decades of her life makes her the "better person." I feel so badly for her. Her self esteem has been flushed down the toilet and resides in the septic tank at this moment. To cook for and f*ck homosexual males just to try to fit in with your evil husband's lifestyle is beyond all belief. If this were me, I'd have divorced him and never spoken to him again as long as I lived. I know she's in shock and is dealing with sunken cost fallacy, but for God's sake, where is her dignity? Her self respect? Even if you hate yourself inside, you don't have to act like it! You can ask yourself, "What would a woman who loves herself do in this situation?" then do that instead of begging and performing for love that this man who loves dick is never gonna give you.
Even if the husband were straight, he could be attracted to other women, but, he doesn’t act on it because he is MARRIED. Doesn’t matter who you are attracted to, FFS! It’s about the love and commitment to your spouse.
This article had me HEATED.
Then they get all surprised pikachu face that non-pickmeisha women with a backbone don’t want to date them
It took me until very recently to FINALLY fully embrace my full sexuality spectrum. What I’m trying to say? Not long ago I finally fully realized I’m pansexual. HOWEVER! My husband, since I met him over TWELVE years ago knew that my sexuality (as in, sexual preferences) was somewhat fluid, and that I’ve ventured with women and GNC individuals as well. Likewise, he’s also someone who’s rather comfortable about exploring his own sexuality and isn’t afraid about societal “hear say” either. So we both went into our marriage knowing these things. In these twelve years, we’ve explored our sexuality WITHIN the confines of our marriage within ourselves. This had made our marriage closer and stronger. Thus, these sort of articles are very anger inducing to me. Why? If I had never bothered to hide my sexuality to my husband, and in the process managed to have a very strong, stable Union in the process, why these men do this?!