Listen Up Scrotes! Here’s Why Women Think You’re Creepy (FDS PODCAST EP. 84)

Maybe not enough time to mention it in the podcast, but it’s creepy by default for a man much older than a woman to hit on her. or to even stare at her. It feels insulting like they think we can’t do better with our own age or something

i get what they were saying about the nuances of being playful when approaching a woman without being gross or being sexual.

my favorite time I got hit on recently was a younger man who was a gas pump away from me who said “hey there, how’s it going?“ and waited for me to be receptive to a conversation. i was in a good mood and chatted for a moment. He soon asked “so you got a boyfriend or husband, are we just being friendly?” I joked “oh yea I got like 6 boyfriends you know, no room for another one” and he pulled out a diamond-encrusted-looking whistle shaped necklace he was wearing from under his shirt and said “but I bet they got nothing on me” we both laughed and he said thanks for chatting. I felt like it was a very non-threatening encounter. I lf he was my type, his approach would have worked.

It is mind boggling by how many men will continue to invade your personal bubble and step forward as you repeatedly step back!

Zoolander lmao! I can't turn left! I love this episode. I really dislike when they do the smouldering predator/thousand yard stare. They don't realize most of em got the thousand fap stare. Zero lights on, nobody is home. Its scary and not cute. Its feral. The coomer stare is ugly because they don't have that twinkle in their eye! Its like you can feel their intentions and that they consume depraved shit. There are wholesome people out there with wholesome hobbies! Who you actually feel safe with and their intentions are good ❤ because they appreciate the little things, because their dopamine receptors arent fried!

I love a genuine smile and i love gapped teeth. They are so stinking cute on men and women. A gapped tooth could be mean in my face and I'd probably stare at their mouth smiling and nodding lmao.

No more stinkys! I've had interactions with men where they would've ended up with a date had they not stunk! This one guy asked me out after he went noodling or fishing or something and him asking me out while stinky made me want to cry! I must be ugly or something if he asked me out in that condition. He had that heavy sweat and smelled like pennies! If he had come back showered and did that I would have been on board. :')

Creepiness has to do with intentions, and if a woman is using her intuition, she'll feel whether a man has good intentions towards her or not. Simply being attracted to a woman isn't creepy. It's the bad intentions that most men have towards said woman that makes him creepy. There's a vast difference in a guy who honestly wants to get to know a woman for who she is and Ted Bundy. You can feel how a man thinks and feels about you if you're paying attention. And most guys are creepy because they come at you with an agenda to fuck and dump and to get as much out of you as they possibly can without any reciprocation. That's what makes men creepy. They don't see women as human beings with value; they approach us as objects to use and discard.

This might be an unpopular opinion, but I wish FDS made this a patreon episode instead so that guys would have to pay for what is actually useful advice. Other than that, there were a lot of great observations made here. I always had a sense, viscerally, of what made a guy creepy, but it was always hard to put into words

I am so glad for this podcast episode. I appreciate the mention of autistic men and how even if you’re at a disadvantage, as long as you aren’t a porn addict, you stand a chance. Men learn to: Not step too close to us. If I can smell your breath, step away. Look at me but not with dead porn eyes and not like a murderer. There are too many men who don’t have a sweet expression on their face when I speak to them and it disappoints me. Make likeable, human expressions. I love smiling men whose faces more naturally and with full expression. None of this holding back or red pill attitude of hiding your feelings. It’s time to learn that your sensitive side is attractive.

I'm listening to this now and I just can't 🙈😂 I'm in stitches.