Double Standards Against Men That Are Completely Justified (FDS PODCAST EPISODE 77)

Wonderful episode!!! I could not agree more with the woman proposing to the man 🤢🤮 that is so degrading and humiliating as a woman to ask a man to marry you. Some “lesser” forms of that I also cringe at and find it wrong for woman to do like asking a man to be exclusive with/be your boyfriend 🤮 On a side note, another double standard that I stand by is the man providing lavish gifts to his woman and woman never doing that for a man. I’ve seen recent videos of “surprisingly my boyfriend with a new car”. And that is just disgusting. I saw one video of “surprising my boyfriend with invisilgns”. Sis why can’t he do that for himself? Why are you spending your hard earned money on him. I’d understand if you bought your parents, sister, aunt or another important family member a lavish gift. If you’re at a place in life that can afford to help your family then for sure do that. But your partner?!!! Hell no!! He should be doing that stuff for you and never the other way around. I completely agree with what y’all said. My money is for me and his money is for us and our family.

Great episode of pure FDS core content! when Lilith said she always takes the woman's side in an argument: I do agree that this is a great way of building solidarity between women. However, I wouldn't take a woman's side if she was saying pickme/handmaiden things such as "sex work is work" or "people with uteruses". I'd def try to peak her in a one-on-one discussion if I saw there's potential for discussion though.

This episode gave me a flashback to when my ex and I went 50/50 on an abortion. We together in love and didn’t want kids. Even at the time paying half it felt wrong but I couldn’t articulate why, even to myself.

But the Queens made it perfectly clear why, esp Reaux in her comments about biological difference. We weren’t splitting the excruciatingly painful uterus scraping 50/50, so why the fuck did I think we should split the cost? My paying half the money and all the pain was way more half the total cost. He should have paid the whole fucking bill.

love this episode and i'm glad i've stopped feeling bad over being more into female supremacy. recently turned a critical eye onto society's treatment of women and noticed how, more often than not, the female body is always regarded as an art form but also the one that is frequently punished and i despise that we are deemed to be objectified in every way.

When Lilith said she refused to be a “struggle mule“ I laughed so loud I scared the cats.

Love it so much. I love how they can advocate for things I cannot. i Just don’t have the debate skills they have. I’ve been right on so many discussions like this that I simply did not have the skills to challenge verbally.

I truly respect how they come up with the perfect comments and comebacks I wish I had been able to make in the past. I always just shut down when someone has what sounds like a plausable argument. Shock at terrible things people say makes me freeze and have no words. I’d love to get past that. i get so frustrated about being not understood about these kinda things that I evade them in real life. I walk away.

lillith and savannah and roe are truly the kind of friends I wish I had And the type of people I want To be more like

This episode was funny af.

PS- Your doctor is sketchy. Your boyfriend doesn’t have to be your husband to be in an appointment with you. YOU get to decide who comes in with you (unless they have some covid restrictions or something) my best friend used to always go with me because they act better when you have a “witness”. But also because brain fog.