More proof that they not only dont care about consent but it's a turnoff. Instead of "Hmm no marks that last more than 20 minutes? Sounds reasonable." They're like "Oh no this could affect my criminal record." 🙄 It's almost like they know that "subdrop" and "aftercare" are just gaslighting and trauma bonding in the hopes that the victim doesn't press charges.
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Aug 18, 2023
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Subdrop is actually just a person after the hormones of surviving endangerment going away realizing that they're being treated less than a human. If you feel horrible after orgasms, you're probably watching fucked up porn. If you feel horrible after sex, you're either an abuser or being abused. These are not normal feelings to have in a healthy relationship.
All women who are into BDSM need to be involuntarily committed into a mental asylum. All men into BDSM need to be put on the FBI's serial killer watch list.
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Aug 19, 2023
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I respectful disagree. These women need to grow and learn. They need help and guidance, not to be lumped together into a package you can drop off at the human pound. The men however should rightfully be forced to go to a mental health facility and be on a list!
Spoken like someone that has zero understanding about what an involuntary commitment to a mental institution is like. Historically, mental institutions have been utilized to silence and oppress women - a major example being the diagnosis of "hysteria".
Women in the BDSM community may likely be trauma victims that seek to re-enact their trauma in a controlled manner. Of course, I doubt this is mentally healthy or safe, but we should not villainize mentally ill women who are victims of a sick patriarchal society.
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Aug 17, 2023
I know a guy at work who cheated on the mother of his kids so he could do "kinky shit" with another woman, because he didn't want to do disrespectful shit to his partner. (they know)He can't fucking FATHOM why I loathe him so much, and to be fair, he's right that it's kind of normal, but I also loathe most men. He's the guy that goes around hugging everyone and chatting up girls, and seeming like a protector type, as well. Big seemingly soft guy. Underneath that is a guy who wants to degrade women.Fuck BDSM.
It's heartbreaking. When I was still on reddit I sometimes stumbled over posts by women who were asking for recommendations of "kink friendly" doctors, especially OB-GYNs, who wouldn't make a fuss about their injuries because they were "consensual" and were applauded to get away from evil, unsupportive, "kink-shaming" medical professionals. Some of them were so, so young it really turned my stomach.
Imagine being so gaslit and indoctrinated that you think a doctor is in the wrong for expressing concern about an 18-year old girl having choke marks, bloody welts or bruises and the doctor should just mind his or her own business if the girl says it was "consensual" and "her kink".
This is the 21st century leftist version of women who don't want to divorce their beating husbands because they think it's natural and God's will. Future feminists will read in shock and horror at this period of time, the same way we regard 1800s.
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If they really cared about a subs safety then this wouldn't be a problem? Really exposes the males that plan on choking out their gfs in the future.
All women who are into BDSM need to be involuntarily committed into a mental asylum. All men into BDSM need to be put on the FBI's serial killer watch list.
I know a guy at work who cheated on the mother of his kids so he could do "kinky shit" with another woman, because he didn't want to do disrespectful shit to his partner. (they know) He can't fucking FATHOM why I loathe him so much, and to be fair, he's right that it's kind of normal, but I also loathe most men. He's the guy that goes around hugging everyone and chatting up girls, and seeming like a protector type, as well. Big seemingly soft guy. Underneath that is a guy who wants to degrade women. Fuck BDSM.
It's heartbreaking. When I was still on reddit I sometimes stumbled over posts by women who were asking for recommendations of "kink friendly" doctors, especially OB-GYNs, who wouldn't make a fuss about their injuries because they were "consensual" and were applauded to get away from evil, unsupportive, "kink-shaming" medical professionals. Some of them were so, so young it really turned my stomach.
Imagine being so gaslit and indoctrinated that you think a doctor is in the wrong for expressing concern about an 18-year old girl having choke marks, bloody welts or bruises and the doctor should just mind his or her own business if the girl says it was "consensual" and "her kink".