I mean, if I like a guy, I’m in to it. But I will never be “throat fucked”, the porn addiction radar would have done its job long before we ever get to that point.
I think I'm just going to decide to remain single forever. The more I learn the more I realize it's very unlikely I'll ever benefit from being in a relationship.
I feel like I'd rather become a cat lady. Toxoplasmosis sounds insignificant compared to this mouth cancer b.s.
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Jun 23, 2023
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DAE just generally dislike giving men head? It grosses me out, although I have been told off in some radfem circles by a couple people for feeling this way (and finding semen gross too) because apparently it's no different to a man finding eating pussy and womens' "juice" gross. I was told I was sounding like an incel for being a bit sickened and eyeroll-y about childfree women bragging online about being cummed into by men. Idk, maybe I was. The thing is, I didn't mean it in a shamey way I just thought it was sad hearing women think it is a big flex. Like ok, you like having stanky semen in you. Go you...? 🤷♀️ These women sometimes mention how they like being creampied in as they feel owned / more connected. Fair enough I guess, but it icks me out and makes me eyeroll. Another reaction I get is it just rubs me up the wrong way, like yeah I bet men love to feel they own you 🙄
I feel you. I started questioning things when it dawned on me that “suck my dick” is an insult…. Meanwhile we can’t say “lick my pussy”, otherwise they’d be all over that. Men view fellatio as a degrading act.
So glad that my husband and I got together before contracting genital herpes from anyone. So many of my friends have herpes (caught from unscrupulous men) and it sucks for them.
The worst part is you can get Type 1 herpes on the genitals from a man going down on you ( herpes in the mouth can transfer to the genitals). But herpes type 1 is way less painful and problematic than type 2 on the genitals because it causes way fewer outbreaks or pathological risk like being more likely to contract HIV like type 2 causes.
i vet male partners to be equal participants in sex and the ones that please me as well as I please them. Bj's don't please me but other things do, so it's only fair i return it. I'm not talking about giving bjs to every male stranger tho
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I mean, if I like a guy, I’m in to it. But I will never be “throat fucked”, the porn addiction radar would have done its job long before we ever get to that point.
I think I'm just going to decide to remain single forever. The more I learn the more I realize it's very unlikely I'll ever benefit from being in a relationship.
I feel like I'd rather become a cat lady. Toxoplasmosis sounds insignificant compared to this mouth cancer b.s.
But what if I want to?
See I like doing it, but only if I think the dude deserves it.
DAE just generally dislike giving men head? It grosses me out, although I have been told off in some radfem circles by a couple people for feeling this way (and finding semen gross too) because apparently it's no different to a man finding eating pussy and womens' "juice" gross. I was told I was sounding like an incel for being a bit sickened and eyeroll-y about childfree women bragging online about being cummed into by men. Idk, maybe I was. The thing is, I didn't mean it in a shamey way I just thought it was sad hearing women think it is a big flex. Like ok, you like having stanky semen in you. Go you...? 🤷♀️ These women sometimes mention how they like being creampied in as they feel owned / more connected. Fair enough I guess, but it icks me out and makes me eyeroll. Another reaction I get is it just rubs me up the wrong way, like yeah I bet men love to feel they own you 🙄
So glad that my husband and I got together before contracting genital herpes from anyone. So many of my friends have herpes (caught from unscrupulous men) and it sucks for them.
Ew. Idc what men say I'm never gonna give my bf a bj ewwwww
Men are vectors of disease 🤮
is FDS getting more separatist? starts feeling like it
The more I hear about sex the more I want to remain a virgin. yuck.