You can't be an advocate for women and be pro "sex work"

I 100% agree. The exploitation of women’s bodies should be banned, worldwide.

If we were a matriarchy, prostitution wouldn’t exist. Every woman would be respected and honored as the living incarnation of the Creatress. Men would treat women with the dignity we deserve as human beings.

Patriarchy ruins everything

Prostitution is abuse. End.

Even some so-called radical feminists are pushing sex work recently. There's this attitude of "yass queen, drain these men's wallets!" by posting on Only Fans. As if it's free money. When in reality you're prostituting yourself at worst, and at best acting like an absolute fool to please men. I keep seeing people tell women "just sell feet pics on OF" like it's solid financial advice. Right. Spend hundreds of pounds getting pedicures, buying nail polish, ankle jewellery, etc. Waste hours taking pictures of your feet and sending them to nasty scrotes. Endure disgusting messages and threats from the scrotes, and possibly get stalked. But hey, at least you can say you're a boss bitch getting paid on OF! 🤡 Fuck that platform.

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This and the fact that Only fans, as bad as it is, is still a walk in the park compared to physical contact prostitution. I hate how they use it as a reference to claim prostitution is empowering when its like .1% of the "market".

Imagine the microbiome of hundreds and thousands of men with their infamous hygiene habits, being transferred to your mouth and genitals daily for years. Men always bitch and moan about condoms so imagine the entitlement when money is involved. The constant threat of violence if you meet a violent man just once, since there are so damn many, and they want to act out the porn they watch. The isolation due to stigma. The way you are trapped in a cycle of being unemployable so having to either continue the sex work or be homeless & raped on the streets. A man will always benefit not only from the sex but because a prostitute needs protection via a pimp or agency so some man ALWAYS gets a cut of her profit. Even these independent escorts playing russian roulette without a man behind her to deter other men from going too far, are paying massive amounts to some scrote for running her ads on a sleazy website directory. How do people survive this in tact? Most dont.

I agree. Sure they make money on Onlyfans but the men who access those pictures will copy it and put it on pron sites where they will be making profit of it. what if one girl regrets being on OF? she fell for the hype that it will make easy money, those men who leaked that still tarnished her image and right to privacy. Hackers also do the same thing.

I find it also disappointing that women claim they are fierce FDS but also pro trans. You're not a champion for women if you believe some ******** males deserve our hard earned sex based rights that we had to fight for 100 years. What did they do to deserve that besides claim they are mentally degenerate and play dress up?

Whenever you say somenthing against "sex work" people accuse you of having no compassion for sex workers, no respect for their choices and wanting to harm their businesses when it's actually the opposite. I'm anti-sex work BECAUSE I have compassion for them and recognize it's harmful, dangerous and exploitative field.

That's like saying you have no compassion for sweatshop workers, child laborers or slaves and their "choices" if you say that sweatshops, child labor and slavery should be illegal. Some working conditions and business models are simply harmful, exploitative and morally wrong and should be outlawed. Period.

The thing about sex work, regardless of whether you’re pro- or anti-, is that it doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It will always be exploitative because the CUSTOMERS are using it to exploit the sellers. I’m sure there are decent customers out there, but the majority are men who would massively disrespect any woman they thought was doing that work, because “she’s exploiting men by making them pay for pics” or whatever other mental hoops he wants to jump through to justify his rage at women making money from something they were historically enslaved for (actual slaves, yes, but also “comfort women” in times of war, forced marriage, and many other circumstances where the women had no power to say no).

At the end of the day, men are the ones getting benefit with no or almost-no negatives, while women get doxxed and have their futures ruined, and get pushed out of their families.. all for trying to profit off their own exploitation.

This is not a vacuum when we live under the threat of homelessness or crushing debt. The reason women turn to this work is because they can make enough money to survive, or to get them through school or to start an online business. They can make more money in less time, and on their own schedule, and typically this is done by women who have few other options that pay enough and fit their needs. I’ve known strippers who had children and worked in the club because it let them be with their kids all day, and they could only work at night when their roommate, mom, etc could stay at their house and watch the kids. They were always just doing what they felt they had to do to make it work and not be in abject poverty.

So no matter how “empowered” they felt, it was still exploitation of a vulnerable woman at the end of the day. And I haven’t even gotten into the fact that most of them had been harassed of SA’d at least once by their clientele. Trauma is common in that industry, and it’s almost exclusively due to depraved MEN being the primary customer base.

When it comes to sex work, I support the troops not the cause. 99% of the women in that industry are victims and have usually gone thru much worse by the time they end up there, so I don't look down on them for it and just hope they'll find a way out sooner rather than later.

I have also heard an interesting theory that all women are sex workers. I think the video was redacted 'cause I can't find it now, but the speaker made some points about how men thinking they may have a chance of sleeping with a woman is the real appeal of ANYTHING whenever women are presented. Something like that.

I suppose one example is co-ed colleges. Until maybe the 60s or so, most colleges were men-only with a few women-only and even less co-ed. Nowadays men-only colleges have DRASTICALLY waned in popularity to the point where they may not exist anymore. I remember one of my fellow student-coworkers at my job when I was in undergrad said he would NEVER go to a men's-only college. I assume most men share this preference and I think we all know why.

So as you see, female co-eds are the default selling point for men to go to college. The very IDEA that women will be attending the same college as said man is enough for men to consider enrolling in their school of choice. We are basically free advertising for co-ed universities.

Women getting free admission and drinks at clubs and bars will draw in more women which means it will draw in more men WHO WILL SPEND MONEY at these clubs and bars hoping to go home with a woman.

Just some food for thought.