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Sisters,
I know my post about this wasn't too long ago but I just need to vent about something that happened to me yesterday, I am still fuming.
I had five women I know over yesterday. We are working on a project together, two are close friends, three are more like acquaintances I know through the project, but I always considered to be very nice, decent people. Let me specify, that only they were invited. It was not a party. It was a meeting to work on the project. We started working around mid afternoon, I prepared drinks and snacks and dinner for all of us and afterwards we just sat there talking with whatever was left of the snacks. Completely normal and nice evening, right? Until at around 7.30-8.00 the doorbell rings. I'm not expecting anyone so I say "Who could that be?".
And one of the acquaintances gets up and goes: "Oh, that's my boyfriend. I told him to come over after work."
Me: "Oh, to pick you up?"
Her: "Why? No. I'm not leaving yet, it's so nice. I told him to come over and get to know all of you!"
And off she goes to open MY front door and invite him into MY apartment with me first being kind of stunned and then hurrying after her. But it's too late. She has already let him in and they are on their way to MY living room. They are both completely oblivious to how awkward everyone it looking and sit down. I am fuming at this point but I don't want to make a scene because the project is kind of important to me. So I sit down quietly and ignore him while she opens a new bottle and pours him a drink without asking. There is forced conversation for around 10 minutes.
And then she goes: "Oh, honey you are probably so hungry after work." And turns to me and says "Is there any food left?"
We ate all of the dinner I made and I coldly point to the leftover snacks on the table.
She goes "Oh, no. Real food. Maybe you can whip something up or make a sandwich for him? It doesn't have to be big but it will be a while until we get home, so...."
The only thing that prevented me from exploding at this point was my dear, dear friends' brave intervention. The got up, loudly proclaimed that they really needed to leave because it's sooooo late and that they will help me put everything away. The other two women (bless them) got the hint and did the same. One even snatched a snack plate that scrote was reaching for right out from under his hand. And then finally, FINALLY with all of us getting up and carrying stuff back to the kitchen, they got the hint, grumbled something about "Why is everyone in such a hurry all of a sudden, we were just sitting there comfortably and it wasn't that late, there's snacks left and we were just starting to make more food..." and left (without helping, by the way).
Why are people like this?! Seriously. Who on earth thinks this is an appropriate thing to do?!
Omg I'm angry for you. Asking you to make him food on top of it all?? How old is she? Is she really needed to be in this group project? I would want her pick me ass gone.
I was cringing reading that post! The rudeness and audacity of that pick-me to not only invite her boyfriend to YOUR PLACE but also to expect you to make him food. I would never invite that women to your place ever again. She clearly doesn't understand basic manners.
sis, i am also fuming just from reading this. i H-A-T-E people like this. please tell me you've banned this audacious pickme from your life.
Women with bfs or husbands are the worst friends to have. That's why I don't want to deal with those. I just saw a hissy fit throwing manlet whining that he can't stay at his mother in law house but his children and his wife can after being evicted. Men can't stand it when women who aren't even theirs won't submit to them. It's ridiculous.
Oh my god is she stupid?
This post made me M-A-D lol!
Thank God your lovely friends helped you wrap up the party. I'm glad they snatched that snack plate out of his hands.
You shouldn't invite anyone over to anyone's home without the home owners permission. Period. Male female whatever. That's just rude as hell. Then expecting you to feed them too?! Which is money you spent on that food. WOW.
Sis, you should not have let this go as far as it did.
The minute she told you her boyfriend was joining you needed to say no he’s not because she didn’t clear it with you first. If she wants to leave with him that’s fine, but you were not expecting any other guests. This doesn’t work for you. Period.
I get that this project is important to you but at what cost? The cost of being uncomfortable in your own home? Nah. You’re being too hard on yourself for anticipating backlash for this.
Any sane person would respect the fact that you have the right to say who can or cannot enter your home. If your friends/colleagues wouldn’t have backed you up on this then they would be insane.
Remember the ethos of FDS. Making yourself uncomfortable at the cost of a man’s comfort (or even a pickme’s comfort) is too high a price to pay. Fuck this lady and her boyfriend they are totally obtuse.
I cannot stand women like this. I hope you can be rid of her in due time.
Thank God for your friends who read the digestion correctly and reacted right away.
This pickme and her scrote need to get lost like yesterday. How infuriating 😤
Just curious, what is the age range of everyone involved? Because truly if anyone over the age of 24 pulls this shit then they're unsalvageable.
I don't get it either. I have one friend who does this all the time as well. As soon as I ask her if she wants to spend time with me or other female friends, she mentions that she's going to ask her boyfriend of 6 years to join in as well. 🤡 They have an App where they type in all of their expenses, so that nobody spends a dime more than the other.... a few weeks ago he told her he didn't believe in marriage.
Like wth.