The thing I find most upsetting about pickmes is how they will pick losers they don't even know over you. Like, so many things could be great about the pickme and they could be absolutely amazing people but this fundamental issue, the insult, the disregard makes me so mad. I need to stop allowing this shit into my life. I have several high-value friends but every now and then, I let friends of friends close and, I swear, I regret it every time!
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I feel the same! There are so many women that I see potential in that I’d love to befriend, but then they ditch you for a guy who disrespects them and then try to come back and act as if they’re amazing women who have been unfairly treated without realising that they’re using you for emotional labour in the same way that the men are using them for attention.