some women see their daughters as competition

I sincerely hope this woman gets therapy before she actually harms her baby and her husband or family notices something is wrong and keeps an eye on her. This sounds serious and really dangerous. Maybe it's post-partum depression doing crazy things to her mind. Seeing your infant daughter as a sexual rival for your husband's attention is way, WAY more sinister than normal new parent struggles. The child's wellbeing and safety must come first here even if it means that the mother only sees her daughter when there is someone there to supervise until she has addressed her issues.

This is the woman who will punish her daughter when she starts getting molested by her dad

This is sinister and peak pick me. At worst this is sexualising a child, at best it's parentification of a literal infant.

She has some trauma to unpack there. I hope her daughter never sees this.

That's a pedophilic mindset.

please tell me there is a followup where someone called CPS on her. "biological co-wife" i cannot with these pickmes.

This makes me sooo sad/angry because there are certain communities (unfortunately I am from one) that hold little girls to an adult standard while coddling their male counterparts. For eldest daughters- it’s often magnified. It’s common for the oldest to become a parental figure, and be held responsible for younger siblings, as well as sometimes responsible for what would be deemed as “wife” duties (cooking for the family, cleaning, etc). By contrast I rarely see the eldest sons held to this same standard. It’s most definitely an underlying issue of viewing all women (in general) as competition and being pathetically reliant on male validation. A lot of the time these same women tend to be overly critical of their daughter in terms of looks, behaviors, and it almost always develops into mental and physical abuse. The crazy thing is, her husband is probably being extremely selfish, uncaring and neglectful to his wife that just gave birth, that’s what encourages (but not the sole cause) this type of resentment, but instead of addressing the issue with him and holding him accountable , it’s easier to blame A BABY and direct that anger accordingly. It makes me want to throw up.

ok, but I blame the husband. He's clearly ignoring his wife and or treating her badly for her to post something like this.

This is the female equivalent of a man bring jealous of his own baby