it's because scrotes get ONE lil girlfriend and become brand new and even the Pick Mes can't manage. That or they demand fwb and have a roster of Pick Mes.
I was just gonna write this. It's very sad but reality under sexism
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Feb 07, 2023
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No wonder scrotes are soo obsessed with FDS and female centered forums. We live rent free in their minds!
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Feb 01, 2023
Honestly, I’ve had men admit they want me over the easier, nicer women because they “liked a challenge”. They later complained about my personality and were clearly moulding me into becoming the subservient gf creatures.
I knew my last relationship was doomed when my boyfriend complained about how much I was travelling/doing things. When we met he said he liked how independent and busy I was.
Why pursue the adventurous women when there are plenty of lovely women who would be happy with a quiet life? Let me guess, domesticating me would make you feel powerful.
That is a great point that you bring up. Initially you ex was attracted to how you followed your own program. Then he decided to hold that against you because...you chose when you wanted to spend time with him? Ugh!
I know myself and I really don't want to be spending blocks of time with a guy. I just can't do it. Seeing how my parents still maintained their sense of self after they got married was something that was instilled in me, especially from my mom. My parents have been married 40 years and love spending time together, but they spend time apart as well. My mom doesn't want to go to a car show and my dad doesn't want to sit in a chair while my mom gets her hair done, haha.
If I did not have my job, hobbies, interests, and time to myself in general, I would NOT be me. If anything, maintaining a strong sense is an asset when you are in a relationship.
Men look for conquests not love. PickMes are already conquered, so there’s no fun in it for the male. He wants the woman who’s way better looking and more accomplished than him so that he can conquer her and bring her down. There’s no challenge in PickMes.
Narcissists have a different value system than normal people. Normal guys (both good and bad men) prefer a "challenge," so they don't respect "pick mes." They might have sex, get into a relationship, and use "pick mes," but they are always looking for someone they respect.
Narcissists, on the other hand, prefer "pick mes." Narcissists or abusers are attracted to compliant women who don't have any needs and are eager to please. Narcissists usually have a permanent group of "pick mes" (including their moms) whom they can turn to for whatever they need. Since Narcs are always cheating, these permanent "pick mes" also help them triangulate / devalue other women. A narc might see a successful women and become jealous of her, so they want to break them down, with the help of their permanent "pick mes."
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Honestly, I’ve had men admit they want me over the easier, nicer women because they “liked a challenge”. They later complained about my personality and were clearly moulding me into becoming the subservient gf creatures.
Men look for conquests not love. PickMes are already conquered, so there’s no fun in it for the male. He wants the woman who’s way better looking and more accomplished than him so that he can conquer her and bring her down. There’s no challenge in PickMes.
Here's what I think (I might be wrong):
Narcissists have a different value system than normal people. Normal guys (both good and bad men) prefer a "challenge," so they don't respect "pick mes." They might have sex, get into a relationship, and use "pick mes," but they are always looking for someone they respect.
Narcissists, on the other hand, prefer "pick mes." Narcissists or abusers are attracted to compliant women who don't have any needs and are eager to please. Narcissists usually have a permanent group of "pick mes" (including their moms) whom they can turn to for whatever they need. Since Narcs are always cheating, these permanent "pick mes" also help them triangulate / devalue other women. A narc might see a successful women and become jealous of her, so they want to break them down, with the help of their permanent "pick mes."