There’s a video going around by that black dude who’s a self proclaimed NPD. The video he was reacting to was a black man on a date with a black woman. The black dude is disgustingly ugly and crass while the black woman is literally stunning and classy. Anyway, the ugly black dude asks her “choked or spanked” and the black woman takes offense—but NOT because he is assuming she’s the kind of woman who’ll take abuse, no, ut because that’s a “sexual” (???) question and she doesn’t know him enough. Like???
And this is EXACTLY why you can’t reason with pickmes. Did she get up and leave when he kept talking about it after she told him to drop it? Yes. And I’m glad she left. But HOLY SHIT. Men who admit to wanting to lay their hands on you and STRANGLE you WANT TO KILL YOU!
It’s like sitting down across from Ted Bundy and when he says “can I make you my next victim,” her replying, “wow, 90% of people would find that sexual,” then gets up and leaves. Like??? Girl?! We think “he’s gonna CHOKE on my lead bullets if he’s looking to choke.” Like omfg.
Anyway, ladies stand up for yourself. It’s good to just get up and leave like she did but holy shit. If a man watches porn, does drugs, wants to put his hands on you, does illegal shit, and/or is just the literal worst STAY AWAY FROM HIM. He’s not worth it.
I don't really understand why you're throwing her under the bus? she said no didn't she?
Also his question is definitely primarily sexual in its intension but that doesn't mean it's harmless.