There’s a video going around by that black dude who’s a self proclaimed NPD. The video he was reacting to was a black man on a date with a black woman. The black dude is disgustingly ugly and crass while the black woman is literally stunning and classy. Anyway, the ugly black dude asks her “choked or spanked” and the black woman takes offense—but NOT because he is assuming she’s the kind of woman who’ll take abuse, no, ut because that’s a “sexual” (???) question and she doesn’t know him enough. Like???
And this is EXACTLY why you can’t reason with pickmes. Did she get up and leave when he kept talking about it after she told him to drop it? Yes. And I’m glad she left. But HOLY SHIT. Men who admit to wanting to lay their hands on you and STRANGLE you WANT TO KILL YOU!
It’s like sitting down across from Ted Bundy and when he says “can I make you my next victim,” her replying, “wow, 90% of people would find that sexual,” then gets up and leaves. Like??? Girl?! We think “he’s gonna CHOKE on my lead bullets if he’s looking to choke.” Like omfg.
Anyway, ladies stand up for yourself. It’s good to just get up and leave like she did but holy shit. If a man watches porn, does drugs, wants to put his hands on you, does illegal shit, and/or is just the literal worst STAY AWAY FROM HIM. He’s not worth it.
Denial and cope are a hell of a drug. It's like they don't want to admit to themselves that they got dressed for and are currently out with a clown so they convince themselves the situation can still be rectified by minor comments but what you're responding to should have been a conversation ender in the first place. I'm a big fan of the Irish Goodbye.
I guess the other major factor at play here in the sunk cost fallacy. All that talking, getting ready, waiting for the date, and then the scrote promptly drops a conversational pile of shit on the table. Are you going to stay and eat the shit girl?? Cut your losses!
The only thing women need to remember is that since there are so many "lonely" men out there they should be on their best behavior and if not you should move on. If they blow it leave them behind! How else are they going to learn?
I don't really understand why you're throwing her under the bus? she said no didn't she?
Also his question is definitely primarily sexual in its intension but that doesn't mean it's harmless.