Pickmeishas hall of fame: NLOGS, "I have 7 brothers", whamenz are emotional, their value decreases uwu, I'm dying X_X

Your value as a woman decreases as you get older??? Oh hell no. Marriage is an institution that primarily benefits men and makes them happy. If you look at the statistics it shows that men earn more and are happier in the context of marriage than when they are single while the opposite is true for women. We as women should not be so desperate for any old scrote that we determine our value based on whether or not we have a ring. We determine our value, not the man. Moreover, aging is a real thing whether or not you are married. If this man is only marrying you because you are 21 and beautiful then nothing is going to keep him when you are 50 and beginning to grey and you would have been better off spending those 29 years single. I actually finished the video and Koko doesn't appear to endorse this message in the same way that the other two did. She actually advocates that young ladies should spend their early twenties figuring out themselves rather than seriously dating so that they know who they are and what they want before they commit to someone. I'm sorry I keep editing, this video has me in paroxysms of rage lol. That last line about if you're unhappy or pick badly it's your fault, SCREAMS of privilege. Also that she wasn't willing to hear or digest Koko's statement that a man may be a good brother but a bad boyfriend/husband UGH! If you read Lundy Bancroft's Why Does He Do That he talks a lot about the importance of the man's family and friends in stopping the abuse in that they often have a unique position to censure the man and remove him from love and social support which may get him to reevaluate his position. Many of the family and friends of an abuser are unwilling to acknowledge the truth, however.