There’s a couple in the news where the man is dying young, and selfishly wants to leave his fiancé a widowed mother. If I was dying, I’d be travelling, not planning on having children.
He clearly hates her. I hate how society tries to make these kind of stories seems so romantic and sweet… instead of the f**king nightmare they are.
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Ikr. It’s not cute, it’s controlling and sad.
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How do I make sure my wife doesnt have time or energy to fuck anyone after i die and my dying genes get to be passed to the next generation? Oh yeah, make her pregnant with 3 kids.
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This is SO what he’s doing. No consideration for her feelings. It comes across like he guilt trips her and makes her feel like she has to be a saviour. Why give up her future for him? I’d rather find a healthy guy.
It would be irresponsible to even get a dog if I know I'm dying and won't be around to take care of the poor thing.
This guy wants to create three human children he won't be around to take care of. Not even just one or two. Three. WTF.
It's one thing if something unexpected happen to prevent you from being there for your kids. But going into it knowing this is going to happen is something else.
Does he at least have life insurance or something?
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That’s how I see it! Idk but in the UK we have the NHS, so there aren’t big nasty medical bills. I think he’s going to die before they have 2 children, because he’s already terminal. I think it’s cruel to choose to have children that he won’t raise.
@ASBlonde That's good about the no big medical bills. What I mean is what resources is she going to use to raise these children? I sure hope they have a plan of some kind for that.
Looks like he's just hoping to hinder her ability to find another man after he's gone by saddling her with three (!) children that he expects her to take care of all by herself while grieving the loss of a husband. Even in death, this man is only thinking about how to keep her for himself, forever. And of course the mainstream culture celebrates this because a woman only has value insofar as she is acting as a brood mare for some man--any man, even a dead one.
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Yeah, why is the focus on poor him, having kids will ease his depression but no one asks how she’ll feel after he’s gone?
Yup, the number one sign of a pick me: self-sacrifice, the second being child sacrifice for maximum male benefit. The number one sign of an FDS Queen: self preservation for maximum female/child benefit.
"It is frightening to think about being left with kids on my own.
"However, I've had a few personal struggles before this which have made me see the instability of life. I also have incredible support from family and friends."
This is disgusting, why would she spend her 30s living a dying mans wish? She's clearly terrified about this.
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@blackrabbit She does not want children at all. A few personal struggles is not the same as having 3 children🙅♀️.
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She doesn’t sound eager to do it. It sounds like he’s coerced her into doing it and if she doesn’t she’s a bad partner. Dude’s ugly too, so it’s not even like the kids get good looks to make up for the future poor health. I hope she considers that his children could die like him.
Makes me wonder if this "incredible support from family and friends" is actually all of them guilt-tripping her so she feels like she'd be a monster if she says no to this raw deal.
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THIS could happen to you / THIS could be your husband. Don’t be in a hurry, vet first!
So his dying wish is to leave 3 kids fatherless and their mother without support. I would never wish that kind of trauma and hurt on another human being
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It's her village idiot grateful grin and the sand speck sized diamond (IS that even a diamond ring? It looks like a twist tie) in her ring that are really sending me. How embarrassing to show to the world how little self-respect you have. Looking at the soggy mess beside her, I see no genes worth passing on, and certainly none worth sacrificing your remaining young years and freedom for.
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I didn’t even think about how tiny the ring is! That’s how little her values his brood mare. 😔 I hope she comes to her senses before she does it!
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@ASBlonde Well, as long as we have grateful pickmes like this happily investing their lives for absolutely no investment on the man's part in return, this is what we get. If this lunacy comes to fruition, what is she going to get out of the deal other than carrying around his litter of kids for the rest of her life, along with all the hardships that come with being a single mother? And for what? Some pats on the head from other pickme's and other LVMs? Worthless accolades won't pay the bills.
This is why women have to RUTHLESSLY vet men. We need to start expecting that a man's presence in our lives should be of a large to benefit US, otherwise there is no point to having a man around at all. Her life is going to get so much more difficult, just from being with this megalomaniac. He doesn't give a shit about her--only sees her as a walking womb to his at-best mediocre seed. Gross.
And the fact that he put the story to the newspaper is even more bullying and pressure to make her follow through with it. Honestly, I'm getting abuser vibes from him.
He clearly hates her. I hate how society tries to make these kind of stories seems so romantic and sweet… instead of the f**king nightmare they are.
How do I make sure my wife doesnt have time or energy to fuck anyone after i die and my dying genes get to be passed to the next generation? Oh yeah, make her pregnant with 3 kids.
It would be irresponsible to even get a dog if I know I'm dying and won't be around to take care of the poor thing.
This guy wants to create three human children he won't be around to take care of. Not even just one or two. Three. WTF.
It's one thing if something unexpected happen to prevent you from being there for your kids. But going into it knowing this is going to happen is something else.
Does he at least have life insurance or something?
Looks like he's just hoping to hinder her ability to find another man after he's gone by saddling her with three (!) children that he expects her to take care of all by herself while grieving the loss of a husband. Even in death, this man is only thinking about how to keep her for himself, forever. And of course the mainstream culture celebrates this because a woman only has value insofar as she is acting as a brood mare for some man--any man, even a dead one.
Yup, the number one sign of a pick me: self-sacrifice, the second being child sacrifice for maximum male benefit. The number one sign of an FDS Queen: self preservation for maximum female/child benefit.
"It is frightening to think about being left with kids on my own.
"However, I've had a few personal struggles before this which have made me see the instability of life. I also have incredible support from family and friends."
This is disgusting, why would she spend her 30s living a dying mans wish? She's clearly terrified about this.
THIS could happen to you / THIS could be your husband. Don’t be in a hurry, vet first!
He looks so fucking creepy
So his dying wish is to leave 3 kids fatherless and their mother without support. I would never wish that kind of trauma and hurt on another human being
It's her village idiot grateful grin and the sand speck sized diamond (IS that even a diamond ring? It looks like a twist tie) in her ring that are really sending me. How embarrassing to show to the world how little self-respect you have. Looking at the soggy mess beside her, I see no genes worth passing on, and certainly none worth sacrificing your remaining young years and freedom for.
That's so fucked up!
This is so irresponsible.
Is he even healthy enough to have them in the first place? Seems like those swimmers would have a hard time if he's one foot in the grave.
And the fact that he put the story to the newspaper is even more bullying and pressure to make her follow through with it. Honestly, I'm getting abuser vibes from him.