Pickme is glad that she got redpilled and turned into a bangmaid. Thinks everyone is jealous of her for being one

"Lifelong happiness", until, you know, she turns older and realises that the men she's dating aren't interested in her anymore. Logic checks out.....

Does she not realize that those "older women" were once 21 year olds too? I was watching this clip of a guy going around interviewing women trying to bait them into saying they were jealous "older rich men" were dating younger women. Nobody was going with the narrative no matter how hard he tried. Like I remember being 21 and not wanting anything to do with anyone three years older than me let alone decades older than me! Nobody is jealous.

I really think this was written by a red pilled man

While these sort of pickmes are a pretty annoying bunch, I can't help but just feel sad for them. What makes someone end up in such a state where they see women simply concerned for their safety as arch enemies? She is so insecure that not outright support of their shady relationship is instantly interpreted as attempts to steal her expiration-date man. The questions she was asked are not even close to being infantilizing, they seem to come out of genuine concern, but the fact that she is so hostile towards them tells the whole story. Nobody is kidnapping her to separate her from the scrote, they are just asking if she is okay, but the op reacts to them as if they were actually dragging her away. I feel like she is definitely going to regret all of this, and hopefully it won't be too late if that happens. She is ofc allowed to make her own decisions, but others are also allowed to voice their opinions on the matter as well. Also the quote "...older always just wanted to protect me and save me from the terrible life I had before because they felt I deserved it" is just.. yikes, that's all I'm going to say. The things she says are a big red flag, straight up sounds like it comes from a cult member. Well, she did mention God a lot, so technically she is one.

Also teenage years end at 20, because nine-teen, eight-teen etc. While a 19 year old and a 50 year old might be same adults in terms of law, their age and therefore life experience puts them worlds apart. Nobody is the same person at e.g 35 that they were during their youth, and her claiming that it's the case is either coping or ignorance.

Is this guy's last name Tate, because it seems like I've heard this story before. 😂 

1. Noticed right away how they were all talking about "my man," and not "my husband." Why aren't these older men committing to them?

2. Moving her away from her support network is 100% an abuser move and that's when he will pull the 'switch up,' and become an angry man she never met before. He may start pressuring her to do Onlyfans.

3. That he's claiming 'they all just want him,' he's 'turned down hundreds of women' and is the 'most eligagable bachelor in town,' and she believes it all without question is just LOL 😂

4. These girls are obviously in the early love-bombing phase of the relationship. Oh boy are they in for a shock. 😬

This is fictional, right? Notice how she praises her scrote as "not looking a day over 35" and describes herself as looking like a "perpetual high schooler" Both probable lies and barf bags aside. Nothing wrong with looking your age and dating people your age. Girl, get a grip.I bet she one of those who pay for their scrotes's way. Hope she finds self-respect and FDS.

I'm sorry but I have to laugh. These pickmes will learn eventually😂😂 you can bring a horse to water, but you can't make it think water is better than the diarrhea it was already drinking

Shes fucked. :)

And it's the other way around - she thinks she's smarter than all the women trying to warn her.

I find it incredibly sad that this woman thinks that all her friends and these older women who are just expressing concern for her are just jealous. She is so brainwashed that I fear she won't wake up until this man dumps her for a younger woman.

I am not denying her experience but she's really lacking some perspective here I should say. It sounds like she has had a difficult life while growing up. It's not uncommon for men to take advantage of women who come from financially difficult or complicated backgrounds. She doesn't love the man, she loves the fact that the age gap usually results in the fact that her bills get paid and she feels taken care of. It's just that...if that's what she wants out of men, then there are slightly smarter and more calculated ways to get that bag. At this point, she should actually consider applying a few FDS principles into sugar baby relationship. Because EVEN THAT would be a smarter and safer choice than completely abandoning her agency and independence, which is what redpill advocates. She has romanticized their dynamic to a point that she can't understand what's really going on. It's scary. Don't bite the hand that feeds you, but also don't fall in love with it. I will strongly advice this situpid, naive girl to start building an exit strategy. Even women in normal relationships need it. She definitely needs to have a plan. She should look at it as an arrangement not a love story.