Pickme gets married after 10+ years, and groom's vows are absolutely vulgar

It blows my mind that total losers like this can get any woman, let alone one out of their league who improves their lives in every way... and they HATE her.

No appreciation. No gratitude. No "holy shit, I lucked out." Their default move is to abuse the best thing they'll ever have.

Men and women really are wired differently. Men know when they're worthless and hate you for choosing them.

Dude is so smug about his abuse toward her too. I can only imagine what his father and society at large taught him about women. 😠

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This is the comment I was looking for. NSFW (Not Safe For Work) is something you should keep away from kids (kids of any gender). Exposing children to NSFW is sexualizing minors. It would also not be okay if those were two sons. We keep being upset that men are porn sick, but men get into this at a very young age. Because being so casually exposed to NSFW is normalized for young boys in our society. And no it is not okay. Kids under 18 have no business being around NSFW stuff. That is not family friendly.

I so hope those kids were not within earshot of those ''vows''. Because that is so not okay.

he’s a shitty parent too…shocking! /s

Omg. I just read the whole article. "Destiny concluded the clip with a rebuttal to all the “haters,” writing: “I know you’re wrong because I actually know my relationship and I know myself and I know Michael.

“So, I’m sorry if you’re just not that happy with your life,” she continued. “There’s never a dull moment in my relationship. I’m sorry if you don’t have the same. And if you don’t want the same, good for you, go find someone who you think you deserve or deserves you.”

Destiny declared that “Michael is too good for me,” adding, “I will say that till the day I die.”

The "I am sorry you don't have the same" is why I am so against society conditioning women to equate any relationship = worth/value. It teaches them having any relationship, even the worst most toxic one, will make them have some sort of status. Which is so backwards because associating yourself with this type of vile man is detrimental.

She's definitely coping by claiming others are just unhappy and has probably adopted the PickMe "at least I got a man" mindset. But in reality, it's very easy to get into a relationship. It takes much more to be happy/fulfilled/on your own and selective of who you choose to be in a relationship with.

Glad the article writer didn't hold back and called him a "cretin," called him gross, and disparaged him, as he deserved!!

in a partriarchal world, a relationship--any relationship--IS status. just like a car, which is why it's so easy for men to trade one in for a better, newer, younger model. it's 100% projection, men need women, yet somehow they have convinced women that we get just as good of a deal out of it. i call bullshit.

also, i get that single people maybe aren't as financially secure in a capitalist society as a married couple...but even one of the richest dudes on the planet, after working himself into the ground to build and then selling his multi-billion dollar tech company--able to spend his money on ANYTHING IN THE WORLD--spent his money hiring scientists to tell him the secrets to reversing aging: eating fucking vegetables, sleeping for10 hours and exercising. 😂

i do that now.

you know when i don't do that?

when i have a boyfriend, because none of them know how to be healthy. they end up leeching off of my energy to remember that maybe they shouldn't stay up until 2am watching porn, eating candy and playing Red Dead 2 or whatever.

Men definitely need women more than women need them/women benefit less from having a relationship with men, that is why I think it's an empty status symbol to have a relationship with just any man - people in society may praise you being in a relationship, but pickmes who associate themselves with a low value man will still expose the fact that their standards are low AF and they were just settling for anything so long as it resembles a man - that's the mindset a lot of PickMe women have these days. "At least I got a man...even if it's the worst one on earth." So she endures countless traumas just to hold onto a superiority that doesn't exist.

I find that successful single women can be very financially secure, even moreso without a manchild leeching off their resources/energy. It's double luxury: you get to enjoy the fruits of your success without having to share it with a terrible man. 😂 I also encourage women to trade up for a hotter, younger "model" - go for providers/HVM you find attractive. I am in my early-to-mid-twenties and I date successful men within my same age range instead of going for old scrotes.

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Same, for my own sanity, I don't watch these videos, I'll just check the comments because it makes my blood pressure go wayyyyyy up. It's terrible to see women so indoctrinated into thinking this type of behavior is ever acceptable.