Pickme culture is embarrassing

Self-respect is invaluable and definitely not worth compromising to coddle some guy. While he laughs behind your back with his friends about how much he gets out of you.

Nobody respects women like this. All those likes they get for posting things like this, will never make up for the fact that they will ruin their own lives for the benefit of men who use them to see how much mileage they can get.

Pick me-ness is truly the culmination of deep seated and deeply entrenched systemic mysoginy.

It's immense. I'm so grateful to be able to see through the foggy lenses now - though it's a daily discipline to keep them clear with so much toxic messaging out there in the world.

The most freeing thing is realising i get to be kind and loving, AND I get to give it to those who are worthy of it (and who I 'pick'), AND I get to value myself.

Dear lord

What the actual fuck.

Ugh. I had completely forgot about that toxic annoying meme aggregator website