Well, if you do wifey shit for a man you are not married to, don't be surprised when you are sitting under the Christmas tree with a fucking promise ring in your 40s.
Why would he marry her? He's already getting all the benefits for free despite never showing any commitment to her.
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Dec 27, 2024
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“sitting under the Christmas tree with a fucking promise ring in your 40s”
This is such a sad and hilarious image. 😆 What scares me is that had I not found FDS, I could very well have turned into that woman.
Have you ever seen the clownery that is the Waiting to Wed subreddit? It is chock full of stories like these.
Those pieces all have a mention in the beginning that "me and my boyfriend have been living with each other for [amount of years]...". It's like, "Yup, that's a wrap. He's not going to marry you."
Recently there was a post asking about the general opinion of couples living together before marriage. I was flabbergasted that so many women were saying that it was contingent upon the relationship. There were the comments putting in FDS principles that it's a no way unless there is a ring and a date.
I really can't with the posts like this that want to play house, think they have the benefits of marriage, only with dating, then get upset when they still get called "girlfriend" after four plus years??
"Co-parenting" your boyfriend's kid. Fucking kill me, not a chance.
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Dec 26, 2024
You cannot make this shit up.
"I took a 15 min shower, and am cooking for the day."
I would have left the fucking house. Just another wonderful story about how parasitic men are, she is just his new bangmaid who takes care of his child so he does not have to.
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Dec 26, 2024
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He probably still pines after the baby mama. They all do.
Why is she taking care of HIS family and HIS kids? He’s using her for her free unpaid help, and using her as a temporary placeholder. She should leave, she is being used and doesn’t realise it. This is why Women SHOULD in fact be hypergamous.
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Dec 26, 2024
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This is why I never date men with kids. 99% of the time they will tell you how much better their Baby Mama is too🤮🤮🤮
Okay, I'm not going to give this guy any benefit of the doubt and assume he's just stupid. No one is this stupid. He had to know very well that she would think ring means proposal. He gets a kick out of getting her hopes up and then dashing them. He enjoys cruelty.
What the hell was that stuff afterwards where he acts like they already had an agreement that they will never get married? As far as she knows, she never made that agreement. Is he trying to trick her into thinking she already agreed to this when she hadn't? Did this conversation only take place in his delusional mind? Or did he get her mixed up with a conversation he had with some other woman?
No matter which one it is, she needs to drop this guy like a bad habit. It's just as well that she's not married to him, that makes it less of a process to leave him in the dust.
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Dec 26, 2024
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Sounds like a typical narc gaslighter. The fact she's still cooking breaks my heart.
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Dec 26, 2024
These dudes are not husband material stop being delusional and wifey
Well, if you do wifey shit for a man you are not married to, don't be surprised when you are sitting under the Christmas tree with a fucking promise ring in your 40s.
Why would he marry her? He's already getting all the benefits for free despite never showing any commitment to her.
"Co-parenting" your boyfriend's kid. Fucking kill me, not a chance.
You cannot make this shit up.
"I took a 15 min shower, and am cooking for the day."
I would have left the fucking house. Just another wonderful story about how parasitic men are, she is just his new bangmaid who takes care of his child so he does not have to.
Why is she taking care of HIS family and HIS kids? He’s using her for her free unpaid help, and using her as a temporary placeholder. She should leave, she is being used and doesn’t realise it. This is why Women SHOULD in fact be hypergamous.
Okay, I'm not going to give this guy any benefit of the doubt and assume he's just stupid. No one is this stupid. He had to know very well that she would think ring means proposal. He gets a kick out of getting her hopes up and then dashing them. He enjoys cruelty.
What the hell was that stuff afterwards where he acts like they already had an agreement that they will never get married? As far as she knows, she never made that agreement. Is he trying to trick her into thinking she already agreed to this when she hadn't? Did this conversation only take place in his delusional mind? Or did he get her mixed up with a conversation he had with some other woman?
No matter which one it is, she needs to drop this guy like a bad habit. It's just as well that she's not married to him, that makes it less of a process to leave him in the dust.
These dudes are not husband material stop being delusional and wifey