Norah Vincent

I'm not too caught up with what happened with Norah since this is the first time I'm hearing about her, but from what I've seen, she came off as a men's right activist? Like it seems to me her "objective" was to "prove" male "loneliness" is the fault of women because we aren't wiling to be pickmes and not because men brought it upon themselves by behaving undesirably. But you can see she is clearly narrow minded and doesn't even bother to consider the flaws in male behavior.

For example, ofc women in sex clubs won't give you real authentic intimacy because they're just doing a service they're being paid for (and are probably coerced into in the first place). Intimacy is for long term relationships, yet men actively avoid them or cheat when they are in one. They are basically shooting themselves in the foot and then complaining about it. You can't go looking for intimacy in places you'll never find it and then complain about it "not existing" or women being "terrible or cold."

Opening up with strangers in general is dangerous, so imagine how much more difficult it is for women when a man, who has a physical advantage over her and whose gender is known to be dangerous/aggressive, approaches her asking her to open up. It's quite obviously a safety issue. Again, if men wanted us to be more "open" when them, then they shouldn't have been so dangerous/pose such a high safety risk in the first place. They shouldn't have created this fear for women that when we're friendly, it can be perceived as "leading them on" which can then result in violent attacks or harassment for us.

I don't even have words for why she was ok with men pretending a piece of wood he was chopping was his wife. That's just disturbing beyond comprehension. People with that type of mentality (that is, they fantasize about murder) really need some serious mental help because that is just in no way healthy.

Things aren't hard for men because women are difficult. Things are hard for men because they made it hard for themselves.

They can't be our oppressors over and over again and then be our friends the next generation.

If they don't like us knowing what they are, then they should let us self segregate and/or date them for material gain peacefully.

They have to groom us into liking them.