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Take a good look at this gorgeous wedding. I was sorta friends with them in university. They met in another college before I knew them and have been together ever since. A normal person might look at this and think “goals” but one time I was casually chatting with this dude about how my bf at the time and I had broken up... his eyes got all wide and he said “d..do you wanna date me?” This was his most "direct" shot but he obviously flirted with me on many other occasions, invited me places and was happy to be alone with me. He also explained once that he wasn't on social media because his gf was so suspicious of him cheating. But now he's back on there. He also mentioned a bit too much for my liking how well known and respected her late father was in the music industry, so she is wealthy, famous & not to mention stunning. He is just some guy with upper middle class parents in medicine or law or something. His looks are not even 1/10 of hers and he is flabby while she is fit & completely toned all over.
I don't know if she knows, or if they're polyamorous (🤮), but they show no signs of this online.
My point is: Most if not all of these apparently perfect couples you know irl and online are not as wholesome as you think. This is only one of a few instances I personally know where they portray their relationship a certain way, but have some skeletons in their closet to put it lightly. Even the "good ones" who seem great in all other ways are hopelessly obsessed with women besides their own partner, at least as sex objects if not individuals, or did something clearly shady. From what I know to be true. I'm thinking about another one as I write this who I thought was a real HVM, responsible, respectful, kind, ambitious and talented, married to his gf he met at age 21. But the he came out with an artsy film that was full of unnecessary nudity and male gaze bullshit. I feel like this is a feature 99.999% of men we will have to accept if we even want serious relationships with them.
Never compare yourself and tbh I think this whole monogamy/ nuclear family thing is a bit of a pipe dream FROM WHAT I KNOW TO BE TRUE so far.
Ding ding ding!!! She's suspicious for good reason, I'm sure. She'd already caught him doing something awful.
I have truly almost never seen a woman "act crazy" or "have suspicions" for zero reasons. But society always like to blame us in these cases for "being jealous" or whatever poor excuses they can come up with to blame the girl instead of the man who is causing the issues.
It's so important to believe what women say for these reasons rather than the perpetual gaslighting that always results in blame on the woman.
When men would say, "My girlfriend is acting so crazy!!!" to my older sister she would always follow up with, "Well, what did you to make her so crazy?"
It's a legitimate question. 😅
I’ll never be jealous of the relationship of others unless you’re 30 years married and he’s all over you like Gomez Addams. I had a baby daddy watch his heavily pregnant lady go into the store to buy baby formula for him to turn around and say “ Soo when can we meet up?”
It's so weird.
Women who have a scrote will come to me with the typical "you will find the right one", "your life must be lonely", "lower your standards" stuff, but once I dig deeper about their relationship you will see on their faces how they realize they actually accept much bs just to "have their man".
100%. Being in a relationship with a man means having to delude yourself somewhat... otherwise why would you want to be with them?
This is why SheraSeven is the goat. If you listen to her advice, you’ll never end up in this situation because you’re playing to win, not for fun. This woman’s first mistake was marrying a man in a lower class than her. Low class men will always cheat if their woman is better than them. The male ego is fragile and predictable. If she’s smart, she has a man on the side to give her whatever her husband isn’t providing and is planning an exit while draining him of whatever she can get. It’s just a shame because she’s likely still sleeping with him and could end up with a disease from her community penis partner. We have to be careful out here.
Suspicion is a deal breaker. I heard this the hard way. If you are suspicious of something, the possibility exists. That is exists is because you sense dodgy energy. That’s already enough.