Just joined Instagram and I keep getting recommended these 'girls only' pages. They are full of posts like this:
Like even if it's supposed to be a joke, this woman still sat there and drew out all these check boxes, wasting energy on a man's bullshit. The women who run these pages are letting men dictate their whole personality, control their thoughts and steal all their time. It's represented as funny and relatable to be left constantly confused, ignored and mistreated by men. Teenage girls will see these posts and think it's normal because they've had the same experience. So they'll just laugh and comment 'omg same girl' instead of leaving their shitty boyfriends. 🤡 Can anyone recommend any actual good female-focused pages on Insta? Or is it mostly shit like this?
On insta, some of my faves (that haven’t already been posted - you babes are on top of it!) are Canadasdatingcoach and The Slumflower. The Slumflower also has an excellent podcast - she is a strict babe and savage about only giving men one chance. Her whole ethos is built around women getting the most benefit from their interactions with men.
Canada’s Dating Coach is a woman who outlines a different method for dating than what society teaches us - one that is more biologically focused, and which gets women to observe mens actions and take their time to vet men before making commitments. She herself is happily married, and she has written books for both women and men (her book for men teaches men how to work to earn the woman he desires, and how to fix his marriage if he hasn’t been a good partner).