I think a very close woman family member is a kevin samuels supporter/sympathizer!

I can't say I'm surprised. There is SO much internalized misogyny it's absolutely mind boggling. The key here is to remember WHY women (and other oppressed people) do fuck shit like this: they believe that by siding with and running interference for their oppressors that they will then reward that behavior by oppressing THEM less. It's an inherently selfish way to live life but it's also an understandable human adaptation. In almost every circumstance they will not be able to see that this is what they are doing and when confronted with it directly the cognitive dissonance will be too much & will force them to double down even harder. The only way to get through to someone like this is indirectly and it takes a lot of work- sometimes years, and you may not have the emotional bandwidth for it. I sure as hell don't. The unfortunate reality is there are a lot of black women who support this garbage bag of a man. As I'm sure you've noticed in your own family /friends : black women are always there supporting black MEN but to say the reverse isn't true is the understatement of the century.

I only agree that women can’t desire men high in value if they aren’t from the same caliber. A single mother shouldnt desire a Childfree man with good money while she only has “love“ to give. But besides that Kevin Samuels is scummy. He disagrees with levelling up and women should stay submissive. No just no. One of my deal breakers is having men invade my life and act like they are in charge now. You’re not the one who gave me life and you are not the one who raised me financially and paid for my education and holidays so know you’re place or get out. Men love to be in charge like you owe them your life but gladly treat you like a Nurse with a Purse and you need to coddle him

until the grave. Samuels also moans that women need to work hard to keep a man. I’m not going to work hard. If respect is not enough to make you stay then get out. I don’t need you.