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OP posted about how she was heartbroken her scrote of 5 months broke up with her on Valentines Day. She said his reasoning was he wasn’t ready for committment and was in his “man-whore” era. Most of comments were sympathizing with her but this one has me lost for words. Just had to share.
This is so sad and triggering. After crying and over-explaining and losing my sh*t at my cheating pornsick ex, I was simply told by my ex-friends “all men are like that, just talk to him 🤷♀️”. One friend even had the audacity to tell me to invest in MORE lingerie/makeup 🤡. I ended up staying with that ugly scrote for way too long, feeling like an absolute shell of myself and I realised pickmes who give this kind of advice are anti-women. Far out.
Try a theeesome, be cool about it. Have no boundaries. Have an open relationship
my god, has she been picked yet?
What even is “an open discussion?” I’m on holiday with a friend at the moment and we’re just talking. I assume it’s all open because that’s just what conversation is once you know the person.
I think this is what makes communication with men like this such nonsense. As living creatures we are always giving and receiving information whether that’s verbally or not. I especially get annoyed with the “but maybe he’s autistic” stuff. Autism is no exception to the information exchange - every autistic person I’ve known well has worked harder because the signals are less clear to them, they aren’t oblivious to the exchange.
When a man breaks up with you on Valentine’s Day and has the lack of commitment mentality, I just think he’s going to be another gross old single guy in 10 years. There is no such thing as a hoe phase - men who are either promiscuously or not.
“He gets some novelty, but in a safe environment” Safe for whom?
What universe are we in when someone suggests a 3SOME as advice???
No man is worth your dignity.
Yuck! Was this in one of those groups that help expose cheaters by any chance? I've seen so many PickMes who infiltrate those groups even though the purpose is to empower women. Outside of FDS, I haven't found many groups that truly support and empower women because they don't moderate comments like these as strictly and allow gaslighting/further retraumatizing and invalidation of the victim while infantilizing and sympathizing with the predatory scrote. "Himpathy" at its "finest" aka grossest.
“NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR DIGNITY.“
— Google Translate
periodt.
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I literally just yelled "oh my god" reading this.
Facebook dating groups are bad news. I was in a few - ones designed to find if hes cheating or share red flags. Many women in all those groups pretended to support other women amd have solidarity- but they were pickmes who policed what you said and parroted around the "give him a chance" and "hookups/cheating (poly, 3ways) can be fun" one group was a front designed to get members to purchase some dating coaching "advice" and she'd ban you if you didn't pay.
Some of the groups don't want you discussing red flags or "making accusations" even if you post proof or post anon. So how is anyone being benefitted if you can't actually mention what red flags you saw?
They aren't there to help women. They're there to act like goody two shows.
Honestly, if you've been following Fds and the handbook the red flags of a cheater/lvm become a lot easier to spot and you won't need those groups.
Some of the fds posts about spot the red flags feat my real examples were especially helpful for some.
Wtf? This is insane and depressing that it’s coming from another woman