How many of you did most of these on the list or know someone who is currently doing these?

Even in my pickme days, I never shamed or blamed other women.! I was a student, so never had a job, but I did do the rest of the stuffs on the list and God how I wish I didn't 🤢

I haven’t but thankfully I found FDS when I was like 24 so it saved me. Other pick me stuff I did was have sex with people who don’t care about me because I wanted to feel loved. Or take slutty photos that objectified my body for the male gaze. Worst of all I allowed predators to prey on me.

im surprised that I haven’t done a lot of these! Haha

ive definitely initiated texts and I was ok without a relationship title. but I think I was the least pick me out of my pick me friend group.

I know someone and she has basically done all these except for fighting over a man and blaming the other woman. but she would never do those things because she says she’s a feminist 😂

My ex best friend cooks elaborate meals from YouTube for her bf and let’s him live in her apartment she shares with her flat mate now her flat mate is moving out . When I went to visit her they were making out in front of me 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

I don't fight other women over men. But I am constantly being attacked by other women I don't even know. Like I walk into a room, and I receive instant hostility from some women there. This makes it very difficult to build and sustain any friendships with women. When I find one woman who is friendly with me, she has a friend who hates me for no apparent reason. So that makes hanging out with her very awkward and I eventually give up trying. These women they don't even know me but they decide to hate on me from day one. Maybe they think they are in some competition with me. I don't know. I never consciously tried to fight another woman over a man. When I know a man is not single, he becomes uninteresting to me as a sexual object. So I don't understand why other women get so riled up and angry at me for just trying to exist in this world.

One thing i can say I never did was fight with a woman over a man. If a man ever started paying attention to another woman, I just said “well, she can have your ass, then. Especially if he brought it up to me as a power move.

Not on this list, but should be (and I've done it- barf): sending sexy pics. I've never sent nudes, but I did send a thirsty bra shot.

Thankfully only the lighter points but how I wish I hadn't.

Ugghhh what I did was asking men on dates and initiating texts (no phone calls though). I'm never doing that again, it is so humiliating. I'm not even an avid texter, but even just sending one benign small talk text and not getting a reply until the next day or sometimes even DAYS later made me feel like one of those super desperate and clingy women who'd throw themselves at any man. By the way, I was seeking advice on Reddit back then where everyone encouraged women to initiate a text, so I thought it was okay, but secretly I was going against my instinct to not do it. Same with asking a guy out. Never ever doing that again. They'll say yes, but will still leave you feeling confused, that's because they're not actually into you.

I'm proud to say I've never done anything on this list (except for the cooking bit but I've only cooked for my boyfriend 5 times over the course of our 2 year relationship lol)

I only did one of those … the cooking part 🤮 and I regret is so badly but I still got lots of very expensive gifts, Goodies and he always paid for everything from that scrote 😂