How can we (as a society) reprogram pickme culture?

I get the sadness, I've been there, and yet now that I've let that sadness turn into coldness and indifference, these men won't get out of my damn face and try even harder to win my attention. I can't remember the last time I've had to open a door for myself in public cause some man will rush to do it for me and I'm not even glancing in his direction.

My new catch phrase as of late is to encourage women to lean into their entitlement. Men do all the time and it works for them.

I think that's the only way to cure pickmeishas. Teach them to be entitled and that men want what they can't have so don't be attainable.

I say "teach" loosely 'cause it's not your job, but hopefully it inspires you to lead by example or whatever may work for you.

Tldr; don't get sad, get mad ♥️

I am so disgusted by LVM and LV behavior in general, so let them have them. A HVM doesn't turn LV because of a pickme though. Without pickmes, more LV would just pretend to be HV until they get what they want.

You write, "You probably never experience what it's like to be in love". The daily self love you have is so much better than the daily disrespects of being a pick me.

Hey girl it's almost the holidays and just want to say I wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year's! It's hard to live on the edge and outside the norm but honestly I find in the end it pays off and you end up being right. Then the pickmes end up flocking to you once they get hurt enough. Trust me they just need to get hurt enough and then they will come running to you and at that point you can turn them down. I've had enough of them too and now I'm just doing my own thing. I also think it doesn't help if you come from an abusive family like I did and I'm pretty much alone every Holiday so sometimes holidays can be depressing but I try to make the most of it. Like this year I bought a really nice white Christmas tree and decorated it all retro style so I think it looks fantastic. But yeah I'm sure if I was with some scrotum they would have tried to do something different and I'm having the holidays just how I want them. I really do think a lot of those type of women are really miserable in their relationships and they're taking a lot of abuse so I'm just glad that I'm not in a situation where I'm taking abuse off some dusty!

“I will probably never experience what it's like to be in love, and that hurts. I feel like pickme women are the cause. Why would a man put any effort into a relationship if there is a pickme around the corner who will just put all the effort in for him?”

Pickme women are not causing LVM to be low value. This is squarely the fault of men.

Let pickmes and LVM have each other. Stay true to your values and standards, and you will have a meaningful life, full of love. This love comes from inside your heart, friends, family, and maybe someday from a HVM.

Why be affronted by the rats in the sewer? Let them stay there, don’t go visit them or be envious of them. Just stay on the sidewalks, and keep moving forward.

This question is laughable.

How can we "reprogram pickme culture"? We can't even "program" this site to ban the call girl services from spamming this forum.

first thing i thought of is even if a pickme settles for a LVM scrote from the depths of hell- she is still a woman and capable of so much more to do better for herself at least. i think that places the personal responsibility of the pick me and the rest of us are horse led to water and we drink