How can we (as a society) reprogram pickme culture?

I'm so, so sick of it. I have a friend, for example, who I confided in about being celibate and how dating apps are full of LV men who just want to use women. Her response was "fine, more for me!!" 🤮

I see countless internet debates about things like "who should pay" on a first date, and 99% of the responses are from women advocating for splitting the bill. It just leaves me feeling disgusted and like there is absolutely no hope for society. I know I should be decentering men, but it's difficult coping with the reality that I will probably never find a HVM. I will probably never experience what it's like to be in love, and that hurts. I feel like pickme women are the cause. Why would a man put any effort into a relationship if there is a pickme around the corner who will just put all the effort in for him?

Just like how there is no use communicating with scrotes, I've found there is no use communicating with pickmes either. Is there any hope for us?