There is a post "somewhere else" in which a woman was specifically LOOKING for men who are not "just nice" but "nice because they want to get into her pants." It was a weird post - she was COMPLAINING about men who are nice but don't try to get into her pants, and was LOOKING for a man who IS nice "in order to get into her pants." I asked her, why do you want a man like that? And I got DOWNVOTED. In anger, I deleted my comment because I felt that it was grossly unfair for such a reasonable question to be downvoted, but I kind of wish I kept my comment.
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That is weird. I notice nowadays though that if you say anything that's not "sex positive" e.g. "hook-ups are empowering" or "sex work is real work", you get downvoted to Hell. The only thing I would say is I think that's more of an issue on the internet than in real life. I know lots of people in real life who think that hook-ups or sleeping around are not safe things to do (especially if you're a woman) but you rarely see these points of view expressed on the internet, apart from here.
A lot of women don't know that MOST men are disappointing in bed.
That's just the internet 🤷♀️
I wouldn't let the downvotes get to you!
But in general if you ever say anything that goes against the grain, you'll be downvoted.
Even on here I've said reasonable things and I'll get downvoted!
Sounds like a TIM.
Sounds like she was a male troll