The last reddit commenter has it right. People will consent to all sorts of crap, murder, being eaten, being slapped around etc and it's your job as a reasonable, empathetic human being to still not do those things because of what that makes YOU. You'd still be a murderer, cannibal or domestic abuser, just with extra steps.We determined as a society that hurting people is bad behaviour so if he does it, he is the kind of person who injures/humilates others just because they ask him to. Such little provoking.. some women should probably think about what that means a little longer. And lets not get started on the women pressured into "consentual" sexual violence. It's just rape and domestic violence with the extra brainwashing step to keep him out of prison. Maybe you like getting choked, flogged and humilated but think of the kind of person who is even willing to do that! I couldn't even pee on one of my boyfriends in the shower when he was curious about it because that made ME someone who pees on people ha. He was worthy of worse treatment but it's not about him, it's about what that makes me and the respect I have for myself.Erin, urinator of scrotes lol. What if he wants you to beat him? Great, hit him again for me. Just kidding but there is a power difference between a man asking you to hit him when he can easily kill you with his bare hands, and a man punching down on the already vulnerable sex. Seriously Kinkmeshas need to think that though.
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Yes to all of this!!! Women need to think about the fact that these men are only committing these acts "consensually" to avoid possible legal trouble if they did it without the consent.
Kink is mental illness at this point. Anyone who genuinely believes that BDSM is okay if it's cOnSeNtUaL needs to seek therapy and some damn self respect.
It really baffles me how women can look at a man who is just SO ready to inflict violence upon someone just because they "asked for it" and NOT think that this is highly problematic. Like, if you don't want to hit someone, them asking you to do it is not going to make you want it. You have to want it in the first place. And let's suppose he genuinely does it as a "favor", then how in the hell does it turn him on? The bottom line is that these men literally get orgasms from hurting women. That's just it. I don't know how they can live with themselves.
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It terrifies me how some people do not see just how maniacal it is for someone--their partner--to want to hurt them. "Consensual" or not...the fact that they want to inflict pain on another being is NOT love and is NOT okay.
This shit is why liberal feminism is every man's dream come true. Now they can hit women AND be applauded for it because they're practicing "ethical and consensual kink". The thinly veiled misogyny in these woke types really wants to make me hurl.
I hate how “consensual” is a magical get-out-of-jail-free card. If you consent to your intimate partner harming you, it is just self-harm with an additional step. Women who consent to BDSM are not in a healthy and self-loving state of mind. I know because that used to be me. Plus any man who gets aroused by hurting you is f’ed up beyond repair.
The exploitation of workers as it happens in capitalism is also consensual, so to say. I will never admit it in mainstream social media because of obvious reasons, but BDSM, at least between a man and a woman, is almost always going to be unsafe and exploitative. It's one of those concepts that sounds okay-ish under ideal/utopian conditions, but since real life is, well, real life, it never obeys the playbook and hence always results in violence and abuse.
The fact that she's even on reddit asking for advice on what to do about her physically abusive boyfriend (because she needs validation before she can allow herself to act in her own best interest--but that's a separate issue) is proof enough thet the abuse was unwanted. So what was that person even trying to accomplish by jumping in with "uNLeSs iT's CoNsEnTuAL 🤡"?
In most countries, you can not legally consent to abuse. The whole narrative of bdsm consent is just another form of manipulation. If you want bdsm, fine, but why not get it from the place of a healthy, loving relationship where you already have respect for each other
I will also not count how many times a male thought something was "consensual" because "I made a hot noise" . It's almost like verbal consent is just a weapon lmao
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The last reddit commenter has it right. People will consent to all sorts of crap, murder, being eaten, being slapped around etc and it's your job as a reasonable, empathetic human being to still not do those things because of what that makes YOU. You'd still be a murderer, cannibal or domestic abuser, just with extra steps. We determined as a society that hurting people is bad behaviour so if he does it, he is the kind of person who injures/humilates others just because they ask him to. Such little provoking.. some women should probably think about what that means a little longer. And lets not get started on the women pressured into "consentual" sexual violence. It's just rape and domestic violence with the extra brainwashing step to keep him out of prison. Maybe you like getting choked, flogged and humilated but think of the kind of person who is even willing to do that! I couldn't even pee on one of my boyfriends in the shower when he was curious about it because that made ME someone who pees on people ha. He was worthy of worse treatment but it's not about him, it's about what that makes me and the respect I have for myself. Erin, urinator of scrotes lol. What if he wants you to beat him? Great, hit him again for me. Just kidding but there is a power difference between a man asking you to hit him when he can easily kill you with his bare hands, and a man punching down on the already vulnerable sex. Seriously Kinkmeshas need to think that though.
It terrifies me how some people do not see just how maniacal it is for someone--their partner--to want to hurt them. "Consensual" or not...the fact that they want to inflict pain on another being is NOT love and is NOT okay.
This shit is why liberal feminism is every man's dream come true. Now they can hit women AND be applauded for it because they're practicing "ethical and consensual kink". The thinly veiled misogyny in these woke types really wants to make me hurl.
I hate how “consensual” is a magical get-out-of-jail-free card. If you consent to your intimate partner harming you, it is just self-harm with an additional step. Women who consent to BDSM are not in a healthy and self-loving state of mind. I know because that used to be me. Plus any man who gets aroused by hurting you is f’ed up beyond repair.
I tagged this as pick me nonsense because it was women defending it 🤡
The exploitation of workers as it happens in capitalism is also consensual, so to say. I will never admit it in mainstream social media because of obvious reasons, but BDSM, at least between a man and a woman, is almost always going to be unsafe and exploitative. It's one of those concepts that sounds okay-ish under ideal/utopian conditions, but since real life is, well, real life, it never obeys the playbook and hence always results in violence and abuse.
The fact that she's even on reddit asking for advice on what to do about her physically abusive boyfriend (because she needs validation before she can allow herself to act in her own best interest--but that's a separate issue) is proof enough thet the abuse was unwanted. So what was that person even trying to accomplish by jumping in with "uNLeSs iT's CoNsEnTuAL 🤡"?
Death to left wing ideology
In most countries, you can not legally consent to abuse. The whole narrative of bdsm consent is just another form of manipulation. If you want bdsm, fine, but why not get it from the place of a healthy, loving relationship where you already have respect for each other
This whole thread should've been "Now where are the loopholes that allow men to be freely abusive? Oh there are none? RATIOD"