This lifestyle sounds good only if there is some kind of way to ensure my financial security. A marriage license with a prenup that says that in the event that I become a housewife/ homemaker/ SAHM/ etc, I still get at least half of what my husband makes, because my contribution to the home is not worthless. I also need to get some kind of financial support in the event of a divorce with an adultery clause for more money if he cheats. That way, if I turn 40 and “hit the wall” and he decides to “spoil” a 19 year who is “young and fertile” I don’t pay the price with financial ruin and homelessness. And if he dies or something I am not left bankrupt. Also if this guy is rich, he can help me by getting me some kind of passive income. Whether it be stocks or a rental property or a small business or something, I would want to have him invest in my future, and if we are together forever that would be his future too.
AlWayS tAkE CarE oF HeR... Can I get that legally drawn up please 🙄🤣
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Nov 29, 2022
I did this for five years and it sucks. They have total control over you. And I did a hell of a lot less than this woman does for her bf. Yeah the designer stuff is nice but there is more to life than that. Only someone with controlling/narc tendencies wants this kind of arrangement.
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Nov 29, 2022
Ugh I'm scared for her. She quit her job as a teacher and moved to be this guy's chef/mommy/mcbangmaid and thinks that it's a fair exchange, since he occasionally"washes his own plate" to show appreciation and buys her designer bags.
She would be paid far more doing all this labor for an actual employer. If he wants her to be a stay-at-home girlfriend, she should be getting an employment contract, salary and benefits from him. Not just his word that he'll support her.
> She would be paid far more doing all this labor for an actual employerThis is what I have realised. Men are literally not worth it. After I kicked out my ex a couple of years ago, I had several hours less of work in the house every day. I get paid $100 per hour for my actual job. Now I can spend all that extra freed up time on paid work instead, or whatever else pleases me. I'm expanding my business and investments. My life has improved by magnitudes. I don't believe there are many men on Earth that are worth my time.
I honestly hadn't heard the term "stay at home girlfriend" until like 2 months ago. When did this become a thing? Surely at least wait until you're married to quit your job. Even then, you need MAD money and an exit plan, just in case.
The thing that I'm concerned about is people thinking that this isn't a pickme wish but something feminists want. This can easily be spun as a bogeyman; "Women don't want to work anymore, they want husband benefits without the husband".
I mean, yeah, I don't want a 9-5. But what I do like is $money$.
Ladies, please don't do wife shit without being a wife. I'm not moving in with any guy until we're at least engaged.
Remember when stupid pick-me bullshit like this didn’t hit the news? Now it’s being pushed everywhere in an effort to further groom women into falling for this trap. This poor delu-lu is going to be left high and dry while this chump change king whistles off into the night.
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Nov 30, 2022
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Imagine having to get up and turn on the shower and make a hot chocolate for your thirty year old LVM. 😂
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Nov 30, 2022
FYI this is not a stay at home girlfriend. this is an unpaid personal assistant/chief bottle washer WITH SEX
Women worked so hard to have their rights and it’s still a damn battle against this shitty society. Now these girls are being brainwashed to basically going back to that shit hole? Ugh
“Biggs shows me how much he appreciates me by occasionally washing up his own plate after breakfast,” I can't with this 🥴
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Nov 30, 2022
she moved her entire life for him only after 5 months of dating. lord. im seeing more and more stories of 'stay at home girlfriends', a term ive never heard before, its like they are trying to push this. I wouldnt be suprised if this story was half fake knowing people these days will do anything for fame and money.
I paused the other stay at home girlfriend post and looked at the things she was writing in her planner and it was so sad. Things like unhappy with looks and no fun excitement or social life. I hope she ditches the stay at home gf thing and finds some real fulfillment
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This lifestyle sounds good only if there is some kind of way to ensure my financial security. A marriage license with a prenup that says that in the event that I become a housewife/ homemaker/ SAHM/ etc, I still get at least half of what my husband makes, because my contribution to the home is not worthless. I also need to get some kind of financial support in the event of a divorce with an adultery clause for more money if he cheats. That way, if I turn 40 and “hit the wall” and he decides to “spoil” a 19 year who is “young and fertile” I don’t pay the price with financial ruin and homelessness. And if he dies or something I am not left bankrupt. Also if this guy is rich, he can help me by getting me some kind of passive income. Whether it be stocks or a rental property or a small business or something, I would want to have him invest in my future, and if we are together forever that would be his future too.
AlWayS tAkE CarE oF HeR... Can I get that legally drawn up please 🙄🤣
I did this for five years and it sucks. They have total control over you. And I did a hell of a lot less than this woman does for her bf. Yeah the designer stuff is nice but there is more to life than that. Only someone with controlling/narc tendencies wants this kind of arrangement.
Ugh I'm scared for her. She quit her job as a teacher and moved to be this guy's chef/mommy/mcbangmaid and thinks that it's a fair exchange, since he occasionally"washes his own plate" to show appreciation and buys her designer bags.
She would be paid far more doing all this labor for an actual employer. If he wants her to be a stay-at-home girlfriend, she should be getting an employment contract, salary and benefits from him. Not just his word that he'll support her.
I honestly hadn't heard the term "stay at home girlfriend" until like 2 months ago. When did this become a thing? Surely at least wait until you're married to quit your job. Even then, you need MAD money and an exit plan, just in case.
The thing that I'm concerned about is people thinking that this isn't a pickme wish but something feminists want. This can easily be spun as a bogeyman; "Women don't want to work anymore, they want husband benefits without the husband".
I mean, yeah, I don't want a 9-5. But what I do like is $money$.
Ladies, please don't do wife shit without being a wife. I'm not moving in with any guy until we're at least engaged.
Remember when stupid pick-me bullshit like this didn’t hit the news? Now it’s being pushed everywhere in an effort to further groom women into falling for this trap. This poor delu-lu is going to be left high and dry while this chump change king whistles off into the night.
FYI this is not a stay at home girlfriend. this is an unpaid personal assistant/chief bottle washer WITH SEX
What is wrong with this generation???
“Biggs shows me how much he appreciates me by occasionally washing up his own plate after breakfast,” I can't with this 🥴
she moved her entire life for him only after 5 months of dating. lord. im seeing more and more stories of 'stay at home girlfriends', a term ive never heard before, its like they are trying to push this. I wouldnt be suprised if this story was half fake knowing people these days will do anything for fame and money.
I paused the other stay at home girlfriend post and looked at the things she was writing in her planner and it was so sad. Things like unhappy with looks and no fun excitement or social life. I hope she ditches the stay at home gf thing and finds some real fulfillment