I'm so, so sick of it. I have a friend, for example, who I confided in about being celibate and how dating apps are full of LV men who just want to use women. Her response was "fine, more for me!!" 🤮 I see countless internet debates about things like "who should pay" on a first date, and 99% of th

Good afternoon, I've recently, unfortunately, experienced and witnessed the systemic harm "Pick-Me" women can cause to others in a rape crisis center environment. I've always been a person who operates with an FDS philosophy, even before knowing what that was. I center myself, my health, educati

Just joined Instagram and I keep getting recommended these 'girls only' pages. They are full of posts like this: Like even if it's supposed to be a joke, this woman still sat there and drew out all these check boxes, wasting energy on a man's bullshit. The women who run these pages are letting me

Maybe it's a sign of my own internalized misogyny? I'm not sure, I hope not. I expect bullshit from men and maybe I'm becoming more biased because I've made a very concentrated effort to limit the amount of men i come into contact with. So I'm just not seeing male bullshit as much anymore because I'

I'm pretty disappointed in my mom. I love the lady but lately she's been showing more and more that she has a pick me mindset. She encourages playing mind games in relationships and i can't agree with it. First, she's been dating a childhood friend that's married for about 4 years now. She's not

It's become a major issue - almost all of my customers are women because my small business is catered towards women. I sell things and have a no return, no cancelation, all sales are final policy - which is common for most consignment boutiques. So much clothes are higher end and gently used but I a

Ugh...every damn corner of the internet is full of this pick me dick gargler and straight dudes obsession with her. Then I'm a killjoy when I don't cool girl about it and how "hilarious and genuine" she is. Anyways that's my screed for the day...tell me I'm not the only one!!

Every deluded pick-me seems to have a guy that she thinks was the one that got away. Always going around saying "There's good men out there though, I passed up good men." 😭They had some scrote who was love-bombing them, their own intuition kicked in telling them that this was a bad guy, and now the

I saw a post on FDS about it. This is crazy, I knew something was up, whether she was clocked as a gnc woman and just discriminated against or either she was actually being a creep and women were right to be hostile. It’s crazy what men think is oppression https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrat

Hi, so, fun story. Bit of a rant, actually. I dated a man for a few years. He was abusive in a big way. I finally figured out that dating him was going to get me killed so I dumped him as safely as I could. He tried to stay in contact, kept bothering me, sent friends to harass me, so I got a protect

This isn’t the first time it happened with this girl. Her husband shut it down the first time it happened. She thinks that she’s doing me a favour by introducing me to her middle eastern male friends (I’m not middle eastern btw…far from it lol). This time around, her husband wasn’t around, and she

This post on IG irritated me to no end. This woman is sharing an epiphany that amounts to a male chauvinist's wet dream. She realized that she can receive men's most profound internal truths if she shuts up. Apparently engaging in a back and forth conversation hinders men's self-expression so wome

I’d rather the article explain 12 dangers of hook up culture. I’m worried about young women growing up in the tinder era/ hook up app era. https://www.facebook.com/share/MSjsMW8gLihxBaT3/?mibextid=WC7FNe

There’s a video going around by that black dude who’s a self proclaimed NPD. The video he was reacting to was a black man on a date with a black woman. The black dude is disgustingly ugly and crass while the black woman is literally stunning and classy. Anyway, the ugly black dude asks her “choked o

Those pickmes who are not comfortable sharing the limelight with you are the absolute worst. If you don't like me then there is no need to pretend, I have always been a handful. But commenting on my jewellery which I buy with my own money just to appear cool and garner laughs is so pick-me-coded. P

What the f is that? I can't believe what I'm reading.

Some excerpts from the New York Times opinion article. No dating men, no sex with men, no heterosexual marriage and no childbirth. These are the four principles of South Korea’s 4B movement, a radical feminist movement that gained popularity in 2019, in response to sexism, hidden camera pornography

I've known a married couple in a professional setting for over a year now. I thought they seemed like a solid unit and both very high value. However... I recently learned that they're only married because the woman gave the man an ultimatum. When he wouldn't commit, she set the wedding date herself

I recently met a set of siblings. (young adults) The sister was super pick-me toxic. Her brothers were somewhat attractive, and gave off potentially high value vibes (though I don't know them, just first potential impression only), and seemed 'well adjusted" (whatever that means. They seemed grou

I know a woman in her 50's who proudly recounted to me about how she's been with her husband since she was 17, and he was in his 30's... I was having dinner with them at the time and couldn't conceal my disgust. I knew he was older than her, but not THAT much older. I couldn't help myself at that

Link to video here: https://youtu.be/ZUveMYJUp9g?feature=shared Just ew. I have no words. Imagine being a badass successful athlete and your own boyfriend won't propose to you himself, so you take it upon yourself to do it. It's embarrassing, and I truly hope she doesn't end up regretting it

My sister in law is a shy and sweet “kid” (23) and she’s currently planning her wedding to her fiancée. Her fiancée is a little odd and way to lazy for my liking. I’ve always noticed that they don’t seem very “in love”. Watching my parents in laws, they always seem to banter and flirt and stir each

Today, I found a love note that my ex wrote to me on my birthday. He was the first person I ever loved. I guess I did not have the heart to throw it out along with my the stuff he gave me. Reading it again, it felt like any other note people would write me; it just wasn’t special anymore. Before r

I pissed off my nparent breeder yesterday: apparently standing on my business that women need to stop giving shitty men kids because they don't deserve it struck a nerve with that witch. it didn't make her argument against childfree any better when she starts hurling insults that she thinks "a woma

So. I have this friend who was dating this guy at work a while ago. They dated for 6 weeks until he broke up with her. He told her that he felt as though he were dating a child (she's into a lot of things like Baby Yoda, Disney, Harry Potter which he wasn't into). She called me up crying her eyes o

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I cant escape it. Im a gamer, im in a few gaming groups . I am SO tired of pick mes coming to GAMING groups to complain about their shitty low value boyfriends. They constantly talk about their boyfriends, positive or negative. What i saw that caused me to come out of my FDS slumber was a woman ta

Watch more content recommended just for you. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM6o2HHJm/ Btw, she had another video where she said he briefly mentioned wanting to see her so she packed a bag and booked a flight... Over a man briefly wanting to see her?