This is a post from user @ryancduff on Twitter (https://x.com/ryancduff) See thread here : https://x.com/ryancduff/status/1890513666623066281 Screenshot of Patriarchy Hannah's account A social media persona named Patriarchy Hannah was revealed to be a fabricated character, with evidence suggesting

Take a good look at this gorgeous wedding. I was sorta friends with them in university. They met in another college before I knew them and have been together ever since. A normal person might look at this and think “goals” but one time I was casually chatting with this dude about how my bf at the ti

Just wondering. I live in a quite conservative country so there's no mention of them here. But everytime I interact with people on the internet, I'm always reminded that people supports this movement. From subtle digs at J.K. Rowling to people saying rednote is not a good alternative to tiktok bcs o

Long story short: she got divorced, used me for my independent single-woman take-no-shit energy for a few months while she was exiting her marriage — and now that she’s found a man, she wants a friend she can go on double dates with. She didn’t say that in her “break up” text, but she has said that

Recently i’ve noticed a pattern with a few friends, while overtly they talk about female friendships and not giving a fuck about men. However, most of the things they do somehow is directed to please the male gaze and get male validation. Under the disguise of being a girl’s girl, and wanting to fo

Honestly these posts make me sooo glad I'm alone on the holidays.

Pickme victim or narcissist? Not sure what to make of this. At her age, I too thought that having sex with scrotes meant I was valuable, but obviously I wasn't going public and ruining my reputation. I also haven't slept with over a1000 men...

Good afternoon, I've recently, unfortunately, experienced and witnessed the systemic harm "Pick-Me" women can cause to others in a rape crisis center environment. I've always been a person who operates with an FDS philosophy, even before knowing what that was. I center myself, my health, educati

Just joined Instagram and I keep getting recommended these 'girls only' pages. They are full of posts like this: Like even if it's supposed to be a joke, this woman still sat there and drew out all these check boxes, wasting energy on a man's bullshit. The women who run these pages are letting me

Maybe it's a sign of my own internalized misogyny? I'm not sure, I hope not. I expect bullshit from men and maybe I'm becoming more biased because I've made a very concentrated effort to limit the amount of men i come into contact with. So I'm just not seeing male bullshit as much anymore because I'

I'm pretty disappointed in my mom. I love the lady but lately she's been showing more and more that she has a pick me mindset. She encourages playing mind games in relationships and i can't agree with it. First, she's been dating a childhood friend that's married for about 4 years now. She's not

It's become a major issue - almost all of my customers are women because my small business is catered towards women. I sell things and have a no return, no cancelation, all sales are final policy - which is common for most consignment boutiques. So much clothes are higher end and gently used but I a

Ugh...every damn corner of the internet is full of this pick me dick gargler and straight dudes obsession with her. Then I'm a killjoy when I don't cool girl about it and how "hilarious and genuine" she is. Anyways that's my screed for the day...tell me I'm not the only one!!

Every deluded pick-me seems to have a guy that she thinks was the one that got away. Always going around saying "There's good men out there though, I passed up good men." 😭They had some scrote who was love-bombing them, their own intuition kicked in telling them that this was a bad guy, and now the

So women are allowed to openly suggest 50/50 and cheap dates. But how dare a woman have her own standards on being taken out to a nice restaurant by a man who actually puts in effort and thoughts?!! The same women later cry on how cheap and thoughtless their man becomes and are left to do all of

Since the Grammy's post yesterday, I went on twitter to see what she has to say about all of this. Suffice to say I regret it I know she's just another woman who's been brainwashed by her toxic husband, but I find it hard to feel sympathy for her. Edit: image in comments

Funny how they claim sex work is so empowering when they can't even call it by its real name PROSTITUTION. Why is the real word so shameful to use? Because they know that word carries a lot of emotional weight. I apologize in advance for bringing reddit garbage here but it sparked some fds discuss

This article here by Rachael Healy concocts the idea of a “Femosphere” by conflating different branches of women's online relationship discourse into one , while drawing a tepid, try hard comparison to online incels - who commit mass terrorist shootings - and Andrew Tate followers - who seek to e

I'm so, so sick of it. I have a friend, for example, who I confided in about being celibate and how dating apps are full of LV men who just want to use women. Her response was "fine, more for me!!" 🤮 I see countless internet debates about things like "who should pay" on a first date, and 99% of th

Those pickmes who are not comfortable sharing the limelight with you are the absolute worst. If you don't like me then there is no need to pretend, I have always been a handful. But commenting on my jewellery which I buy with my own money just to appear cool and garner laughs is so pick-me-coded. P

What the f is that? I can't believe what I'm reading.

Some excerpts from the New York Times opinion article. No dating men, no sex with men, no heterosexual marriage and no childbirth. These are the four principles of South Korea’s 4B movement, a radical feminist movement that gained popularity in 2019, in response to sexism, hidden camera pornography

I've known a married couple in a professional setting for over a year now. I thought they seemed like a solid unit and both very high value. However... I recently learned that they're only married because the woman gave the man an ultimatum. When he wouldn't commit, she set the wedding date herself

I recently met a set of siblings. (young adults) The sister was super pick-me toxic. Her brothers were somewhat attractive, and gave off potentially high value vibes (though I don't know them, just first potential impression only), and seemed 'well adjusted" (whatever that means. They seemed grou

I know a woman in her 50's who proudly recounted to me about how she's been with her husband since she was 17, and he was in his 30's... I was having dinner with them at the time and couldn't conceal my disgust. I knew he was older than her, but not THAT much older. I couldn't help myself at that

Link to video here: https://youtu.be/ZUveMYJUp9g?feature=shared Just ew. I have no words. Imagine being a badass successful athlete and your own boyfriend won't propose to you himself, so you take it upon yourself to do it. It's embarrassing, and I truly hope she doesn't end up regretting it

My sister in law is a shy and sweet “kid” (23) and she’s currently planning her wedding to her fiancée. Her fiancée is a little odd and way to lazy for my liking. I’ve always noticed that they don’t seem very “in love”. Watching my parents in laws, they always seem to banter and flirt and stir each

Today, I found a love note that my ex wrote to me on my birthday. He was the first person I ever loved. I guess I did not have the heart to throw it out along with my the stuff he gave me. Reading it again, it felt like any other note people would write me; it just wasn’t special anymore. Before r