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I read it long before on fds do not send long paragraphs but I still slipped and fell into my pick me ways few times . What did I get them having upper hand and making me look like fool when I had the upper hand was doing great ghosting them should have blocked them . Long paragraphs are our enemy. This post on Insta reminded me of what I did wrong in the past .
Oh yeah. Expository writing to Losers 101. This falls into the category of "explaining" and it's wayyyy too much effort. I've decided I am done explaining myself or asking for clarity from someone who has made it clear they aren't showing up. I will not spell it out. Men know. They know what they've done and if they are unsure of some subtle nuance (chuckles softly), they will ask. At which point I decide whether it's reasonably worth my time to explain. It never is. So I just quietly disengage. Suddenly I have so much free time...
I remember the pain and desperation and good faith I put into crafting these kinds of paragraphs to selfish, worthless LVM 😓 Thank goddess I found FDS and have never sent another tortured paragraph since 🙏 Block, delete, and savor the peace.
If you have to ask "What are we?" then you already know the answer. If you do not walk away as soon as you ask that question to yourself, you are in for some terrible pain and heartbreak. I learned the hard way when I became entangled in a very confusing dynamic with a man that left me feeling the exact things in this picture. One minute, we're talking like we've known each other our whole lives, the next I didn't exist. Never again.
No paragraphs! No reply! Just a cold ghosting. IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD.
Instead of asking a question, this girl should just say something like, “I’m sick of the wishy washy bullshit going on between us. So please do not contact me again.” Then block and delete. I don’t see anything wrong with saying your peace. It’s not for him, anyway. It’s for yourself and your sanity. I’ve never once regretted telling a guy off and blocking him.
I get the need to do this; we’ve all done it. I honestly think it serves a purpose: define the relationship or walk. Or walk anyway! He doesn’t define it to your satisfaction, then you walk and ghost him from then on. It’s a Hail Mary pass for sure and could backfire but I totally get doing it. I personally would walk and ghost the very first and last time he either ignored me or spoke very disrespectfully in private or in public if he was trying to make bro-points. You walk and ghost the first time. Takes time to learn but we all do. Now you know going forward.
I used to write out long shit like this too and now I'm at the point where I will be very terse. I'm past the point of wanting to be generous with my time and explain things to men when they know exactly what they are doing.
btw "levelled up elites" sounds like some kinda lame rip off of FDS