Well also I just find people don't value things they don't have to work for in general. Not just men, everyone. So I don't know how he would value her if she was chasing him and he didn't have to do anything.
Exactly, he doesn’t value her. He settled for her. When you learn the truth about men, you can’t unsee it. She chased him which is a big ‘no no’. He’s with her because she benefits him. He never wanted her, doesn’t want her and never will want her because he never chased her; she did the chasing.
His spiel of feeling he didn’t “deserve her” is all talk and isn’t true. Especially with the dynamic of their relationship, he’s saying that to sound romantic which the women in the comments are eating up. That’s not how he feels. I rolled my eyes hearing him say that, that I stopped the video.
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sounds like mental gymnastics and perception management (aka not truth)
He seems genuine but there’s this voice at the back of my head thats telling me something is up.
I definitely dont think other women should go this route.