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This is not a Reddit post. It was actually posted in my town's FB group and I had to share. Seriously, once you know FDS and have standards, you sniff these scrotes and all the red flags from a mile away. Luckily most women in my town are successful and independent mothers who are married/single. They all told her she is being abused and that she needs to leave him.
so.
he pimped his girlfriend out on OnlyFans, a site where men pay to view porn...
then she was traumatized (probably) by looking at unsolicited dick pics...
and SHE'S the who is untrustworthy. 🤔
i'm glad sis' homies told her what's up.
i mean i get it: she sounds like she has invested her SOUL into this partnership, and he's treating it like his own personal porn enterprise in true entrepreneurial scrote fashion.
it's hard to see when you've been mindf**ked by a scrote.
stay ruthless and never stop vetting. the SECOND he stops treating you like a human being, and more like an object for sale and consumption,
DROP HIM LIKE IT'S HOT.
Men will forever resent you for complying with their ideas and requirements. It's so backwards, but that's how they are. They ask you to do something for them only to then go ahead and believe it makes you weak for doing the thing. That's why FDS says to look for men who don't ask anything of you. Men wanting favors is a red flag. They don't respect women who do them favors, because they are conditioned to believe that a woman's place is servitude and when you serve him you activate that misogynistic conditioning in him. They can only respect women who do less because then they don't really behave like women. Of course, LVM won't respect any woman anyways but I'm talking about more "normal" men. Even with HVM I'd be reluctant, because they seem to not women helping them because it threatens their perceived usefulness. In short: you never get the gratitude, praise and loyalty you deserve for making sacrifices for a man. Never. Ironically, the best way to get these things is by doing nothing. It took me a while to grasp this myself but men are the ones who are built to sacrifice.
Once a man mistreats and cheats on her, he’ll bizarrely never trust HER ever again. (BTW this dude's lying by saying he "wants to have experiences w/other women" - he already has been and is projecting his abuse/cheating onto her!)
Make it make sense! See also Lundy Bancroft “WHY DOES HE DO THAT?”
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OMG. He's always been a scrote, they are still in the honeymoon phase, he's an "over thinker" (ie he gets silent and broody where it's her responsibility to soothe him), pimps her out online, then uses an excuse to distance himself from her so he can have the relationship style he truly wants, which is a completely one-sided "relationship" based in some weird power fetish or just wants to keep having sex with her while she walks on eggshells and gets none of her needs met. It's truly sad and manipulative.